Submitted by aquakitty99 t3_10il81x in tifu

I (25 F) shaved my vagina and butthole a few days ago. It gave me razor bumps, ingrown hairs, and maybe some acne. Today I royally fucked up by washing my area down there with Dr. Bronner’s Tea Tree Castile Soap. Tea Tree is supposed to be antibacterial so it sounded like a good idea at first. I thought it would help the situation down there, instead I gave myself a chemical burn at my perineum. It hurts so bad. Maybe I used too much or washed too aggressively. It burns while doing nothing. It burns even more when I pee. I put some vaseline on the area and it feels ok for now, but OH MY GOD I’LL NEVER USE DR. BRONNER’S DOWN THERE AGAIN. No sexy time for a little while, I hope it heals soon so I can have s3x again. Grrr. Lesson learned. Never again. Today I really fucked up.

TL;DR Today I fucked up washing down there with Dr. Bronner’s and it gave me a chemical burn

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myunqusrnm t1_j5ew96y wrote

Yea. Don't use it down there, even without the shaving.

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Jolly_Security_4771 t1_j5ewzy7 wrote

My bff bought the Dr Bronner's peppermint stuff, and the next day I got a text asking why nobody told her about peppermint butthole. You are definitely not alone in the Tingly Bits Club

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capybarometer t1_j5f0e23 wrote

Always use unscented Dr. Bronners, the essential oils in the scented ones do nothing but smell nice and irritate skin

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GordianNaught t1_j5f9jdi wrote

Tea Tree Oil has a tingly feeling when I shampoo my hair with it. This is why I don't shave my asshole with it. I already know it's not a good idea 😕

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TelephoneOk3162 t1_j5fb4dt wrote

Tee tree oil burns when applied to regular skin. Can’t begin to imagine the burn when it comes in contact with a mucous membrane.

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Zombabex t1_j5fbnzv wrote

You’re supposed to dilute it 😭

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kakachina t1_j5fckrm wrote

I hope you mean on the outside! Never use any soap even unscented on your hoohah that’s bad!

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donramon2022 t1_j5fdpch wrote

find a hobby one of these days ur gonna burn ur pork choy hole

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Forgetful8nine t1_j5femvs wrote

I'll never forget the day I showered after a hefty dose of food poisoning. My poor arsehole was a mere shadow of its former self...

...I used Original Source Mint & Tea Tree shower gel and shampoo. It ran down my back, down my crack and, well...I squealed and cried. I cried a lot. I ended up curled into the foetal position in the shower.

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BananaSignificant771 t1_j5fgt1h wrote

You poor thing!!! Even when you use it on the rest of your body, make sure you dilute it! That stuff is too powerful.

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AlternativeWorker115 t1_j5fmi4a wrote

The feels my partner has tea tree shower gel, thought it smelled nice one day and top and bottom cleaned with it....I cried

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Lemmonjello t1_j5fr2qf wrote

For razor bumps I recommend tend skin IT WILL BURN WHEN YOU PUT IT ON but the burn does go away and over time the burning feeling doesnt feel so burny anymore.

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tdm17mn t1_j5frh47 wrote

Fun Fact time! My former japanese tutor’s husband (who has since passed, sadly,) actually owned that company.

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Kcnflman t1_j5fsfhg wrote

Dr. Bronner, Dr. Mengele’s understudy?

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Majikkani_Hand t1_j5fsgqc wrote

Look, ordinarily I'd agree with you, but that soap's label is 90% nonsensical ranting. I can see why somebody would miss the actual use instructions. I read it all, because it was hilarious, but it's a lot.

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ConstipatedGoku t1_j5fyf6z wrote

Damn I’ve been there now I buy either the rose or non scented one when I shower. I’m praying for your hooha 🙏🏾

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Trompwnist t1_j5g3lh6 wrote

I've found that Lavender-scented Dr. Bronners is better for sensitive areas

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timascus t1_j5g4jsf wrote

Some people have bad reactions to tea tree oil even if not using it in a sensitive area

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mmjames66 t1_j5g8aea wrote

Next time, a warm bath with Epsom salts instead...

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Humble-Inflation-964 t1_j5g8sej wrote

>The Karen’s are uniting. There are like 50 different instructions on the bottle and typically washing yourself is pretty cut an dry. I don’t think most people feel the need to read instructions when they buy a new body wash. Just turns out dr bronners is different. She made a mistake that was understandable and it was really only compounded because of her razor burn. But I guess on some level we all know that people like you only come to Reddit for the heady sense of smug self satisfaction and superiority that you can only achieve by pointing out another persons faults and follies.

Gotta be honest, if I'm gonna rub a chemical all over my body, I read the instructions first. Even on soap, even on shampoo.

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LuckyDog1910 t1_j5g8tt3 wrote

Penis owner here. Tea Tree Soap/Shampoo just burns me up.

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Poemang94 t1_j5g8z52 wrote

SUMMERS EVE. Everyone needs to stop using whatever the hell on their lady bits. Only use products that are meant for your sensitive areas. If it doesn't say for vaginal use, DO NOT USE IT ON YOUR BITS. Lol

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sweet-demon-duck t1_j5g93da wrote

You shouldn't even use soap down there. It messes up the pH. Water is good, soap is bad (unless is specifically for that only)

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MadameMonk t1_j5gchq3 wrote

Nah, tea tree is great for irritations and skin issues down there. But not straight oil. Mixed into a lotion base, or diluted with plenty of warm water as a splash or compress. Thursday Plantation has some terrific products that won’t burn you. Tingle, yes. But that feeling only lasts a few seconds.

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Kindred1845 t1_j5gcjff wrote

This is one of many reasons why waxing is superior to shaving. You will still be a little tender...but that improves with regular attendance and no razor burn afterwards. Swapped to waxing two years ago and will never go back.

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MercyfulBait t1_j5ge2a3 wrote

If you think the tea tree is bad, just wait until you try the peppermint!

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fapstronautica t1_j5gf46q wrote

Yeah, not good on the wahoo, either. Speaking (M) from hard-earned experience

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Upshot12 t1_j5gfl4m wrote

Never ever use antibacterials on any tender bits.

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ThadsBerads t1_j5gfzyd wrote

Omg......I did the same thing with a gel "scrub" on my man bits. Washing went fine but I started to itch and then the pain started. Turns out the abrasive in the Scrub was walnut husk and I'm allergic to Walnuts. This was right before a big date. No other nuts were used that night.

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kakachina t1_j5gii4e wrote

Summers eve is actually soooo bad. Talk to your OBGYN and they’ll help you out. Any doctor will say to avoid any soap even if it’s targeted for the vaginal area if they care

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kakachina t1_j5ginte wrote

There’s no reason you should be getting downvoted. You’re not supposed to use anything but water on the inner area. Any OBGYN or doctor will tell you that unless they’re not fully careful about it

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Poemang94 t1_j5gjvzt wrote

I actually go to a midwife headed by a supervising doctor. As far as I know they aren't sponsored by anyone. She just told me it's a great brand aimed towards vaginal care. So I tried and never went back.

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Poemang94 t1_j5gk3el wrote

Well they say they're only a bad brand for the dyes from the scents being bad for PH, i thought. I use all unscented. No doctor or gyno recommends using fragrances or anything with dyes. Which is why unscented is the recommended. But looking things up. Summers Eve unscented is one of the top nether region soaps recommended by gynos.

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Crash4654 t1_j5gp3b5 wrote

Bunch of propaganda, ingredients, essential oils, and instructions to dilute it. Turns out reading isn't hard. Majority of it is just word vomit to sound appealing and be different.

My reading comprehension is just fine considering I'm not the one online complaining about smearing it on my junk.

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Omnomnomulus t1_j5gq00s wrote

DILUTE ! DILUTE! DILUTE!

It literally says it on the directions.

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Lepardopterra t1_j5gsvp3 wrote

You have my deepest sympathy. I got Dr Bronner's Peppermint soap down under once, and that was bad enough.

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YazZy_4 t1_j5gxe34 wrote

tea tree oil just doesnt mix with sensitive areas, period. it'll melt skin if you have it on a makeup removal pad or something and leave it for long enough (a very scorched earth way of getting rid of a zit)

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puddin_pop83 t1_j5gxxxm wrote

I use cerave... it doesn't burn and it's super gentle.

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Lovat69 t1_j5h40ot wrote

>I (25 F) shaved my vagina and butthole a few days ago.

This alone tells me too much.

>It gave me razor bumps, ingrown hairs, and maybe some acne.

This makes it worse.

Regardless, owie, I hope you feel better soon.

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m-in t1_j5h4aur wrote

You have a point, although the “summary” is a bit lacking in detail :). The pine tree oil IIRC also has the “no razor burn” admonition even though it seems comparatively inert.

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Poemang94 t1_j5h71sc wrote

Nobody is being paid to say anything, dumbass. I've been using the product for years and it's been great for me so i put in my two cent about my personal experience and thoughts. I've never had any sort of negative reactions to it. Grow up. Just because something works for me and I recommended and maybe it's not the best product, but it's worked for me for years. Doesn't mean be a dick about it and accuse people of trying to make money off of the product.

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BrandyStar01 t1_j5hkrs5 wrote

Soak in an oat bath and apply athick layer of sudocream on your guch! It should help with pain:)

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RealDanStaines t1_j5hmvj3 wrote

I probably never had a bottle of that close enough to my face to read the spelling without blacking out. In fact you probably know me quite well from one of your associated circles and I just don't remember.

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uglyheadink t1_j5hstis wrote

At least it wasn’t the peppermint one. I made that mistake. 😂 Great product, but my god—dilute it to hell if you’re planning on using it as a full body wash. In general, Dr. Bronners is very concentrated, it says to dilute it on the bottle haha.

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AnandaPriestessLove t1_j5i20cp wrote

OP- try aloe for the bumps/razor burn next time. Real, 100% aloe or a slice of the plant.

Also, for future shaving needs, pick a good quality conditioner (I like Shea Moisture brand) and slather it on your personal areas which will be shaved. Let the conditioner soak in for at least 2 minutes. Shave using a fresh or newish razor, using Sensitive skin gel and foam it into a rich lather. Wash your razor with very hot water between each shave. After the shower, moisturize with a good quality moisturizer (Lol I like Dr Bronner's lavender lotion but aloe works great too). Good luck!

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BrightGreyEyes t1_j5i8b8r wrote

It's marketed for your bits, but it's not pH balanced for it. It's also not necessary. The vagina is self-cleaning; assuming you're healthy, anything you do to "clean" it just kills the good microbes, making you more susceptible to infections. Some odor is normal. Summer's Eve, Lumi, and all the products like them are built around making people feel self conscious about normal body stuff

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Poemang94 t1_j5i8pa5 wrote

That's a false statement. The inside(the vagina) is self cleaning. Outside(vulva) is not. Who told you the vulva cleans itself? Cuz this is what's being talked about in my comments.

Nobody here is saying use these products up inside your vagina to take care of it. Lol

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BrightGreyEyes t1_j5i8r4t wrote

Ah. Thats what it is. Go to a gynecologist or nurse practitioner whose practice is less focused on pregnancy. It's common for midwives and OB/GYNS who focus primarily on the obstetrics part to not necessarily be great with other gynecological concerns

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BrightGreyEyes t1_j5i9b6e wrote

I used to have this happen. Shaving isn't a good idea down there for a couple reasons. This is one of them. But, now that it's already happened, harsh soaps aren't really going to help. When you shower, use a clean washcloth to exfoliate so you don't get ingrown hairs. Once you're out of the shower, witch hazel toner then aloe.

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Poemang94 t1_j5i9cf4 wrote

They're practiced in both and have been seeing me for years before I even had my first kid. My gyno isn't the kind of person who's going to do that. Plus, I have a separate Gyno from my OB. Just same practice. I meant to say midwifery with upervising doctor. He's gyno.

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BrightGreyEyes t1_j5ia0nc wrote

I know the difference. You're still not supposed to use soap, just warm water. Products like Summer's Eve are basically a "It's best not to, but if you absolutely must, at least use something vaguely vagina safe," thing. Even if you're not soaping up your actual insides, some soap will get in when you wash your vulva. You don't need it, so why spend money with a company that was founded to make people feel bad about their bodies?

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Poemang94 t1_j5iagp5 wrote

I don't really pay attention to that stuff to be honest. I never actually looked into it. I've never felt bad about my body, I just clean all of my body because I thought it was how you do it and so I picked something I believed to be safe.

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BrightGreyEyes t1_j5icjpp wrote

That's partly because of companies like Summer's Eve that made people feel like normal vaginal odor was bad. You're lucky though. If I even look at a bottle of Summer's Eve or any similar product, I get BV.

I started using it in college when I got BV for the first time because I thought maybe I wasn't cleaning my vulva well enough (I now suspect he just had bad hygiene) and kept using it after. Even though I broke up with that guy and wasn't sleeping with anyone, I still kept getting BV. Eventually, I told my doctor that I was cleaning down there really well so I didn't understand why it kept happening, and she was like "WITH SOAP?!?!" When I said I was using sensitive skin Summer's Eve (no fragrance, dyes, etc), she explained how even that wasn't great and why it was unnecessary. I'm usually pretty well informed about vaginal health, and I had mentioned how careful I was to rinse down there at the end of my shower just incase and shampoo, body wash, conditioner got near that area so I think she thought I couldn't be using soap down there. I happen to have incredibly sensitive lady bits, but it still makes other people more vulnerable to BV and yeast infections. The wipes freak me out even more because you're not even washing it off

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Poemang94 t1_j5ie0ry wrote

Yeah I've been using it since I was 17. I'm 28 now but I've never had any issues whatsoever. I thought I was doing myself good. Well, I've learned something today. I'm gonna throw out all of my Summers Eve stuff. Everything I believed I was doing right was bad. Now I feel a bit sad.

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BrightGreyEyes t1_j5ig9zu wrote

Don't feel bad. There has been a lot of marketing for a very long time aimed at making people think it's necessary, and the medical establishment isn't always great about communicating about this kind of thing because it's usually not really their job unless it's causing problems. There's also a lot of weird sexism and shame that would take too long to get into here that helps perpetuate these ideas. Blame lack of good sex ed. I took a lot of microbiology, anatomy and physiology, etc and even did some sexual health work, but it still took like 5 rounds of BV for either me or my doctor to realize what was going on.

If it's worked out well for you, then it's probably fine. It also might be weird to suddenly stop (who knows, every body is different), so I'd start by just using it less frequently to see how it goes. I just wouldn't advocate it to others unless it's a "if you absolutely must" situation. I would avoid buying the wipes again, though, if only because they're bad for the environment

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Poemang94 t1_j5igsjm wrote

Yeah that's pretty understandable. Still know knowing that it's bad for vaginal health and I still think I'm gonna stop it altogether. I don't want to cause problems for myself later. Lol the wipes I only use when I absolutely need to but the wash is a daily thing. So anything to help myself be better about it and the environment, I'd gladly throw them out.

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Humble-Inflation-964 t1_j5iguoo wrote

>I get where your coming from but the entire point of dr bronners is that it’s completely organic. No added chemicals

Being "organic" means they have much less control over what concentration is safe for skin...

>And you gotta be the exception most people don’t feel the need to

Oh really? I appreciate your confidence, but I'm fairly certain neither of us know which behavior is the exception and which is the rule.

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BrightGreyEyes t1_j5iju9g wrote

Since you already have it, I wouldn't get rid of it even if you stop using it down there. The wash and the wipes would actually probably be really good for armpits after intense workouts or hot sweaty days

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Clide01 t1_j5ijuac wrote

Ouch, been there done that but with the male parts(tingly balls for DAYS).

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Read the label, you are supposed to dilute the CRAP out of it. a small squirt on a washcloth is what they recommend for body washing. A 1/10 ratio of soap to water for dishes. I found once I diluted it I was able to use it in sensitive areas.

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Sumguy9966 t1_j5iznx2 wrote

This is why u either wax, laser remove or use hair removal cream for extra sensitive skin and be stingy with it / never directly on privates.

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Sad_Librarian2859 t1_j5j80rn wrote

It has to be diluted 3 parts water to one part soap. Stop using a razor and either buy a wax pot off Amazon or use clippers to trim the area down. Use antibiotic ointment to heal your bits instead of Vaseline

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sexual_ginger t1_j5jb6fv wrote

I use Dr. Bonners on my delicate bits with no problems. I even messed up and bought the peppermint and have had no issues. Did you add water to it first or just straight out the soap on your skin? I love that soap and it’s been the best thing for me for those parts of my body.

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l_Heavy_Rain_l t1_j5k9c6a wrote

Was this post written by AI that learned from all the other garbage that gets posted here?

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SpecialpOps t1_j5l16rq wrote

Dr. Bronner’s LAVENDER for the ladybits!

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only4adults t1_j5m7dn5 wrote

Don't shave your ahole. It's going to itch and get infected.

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jimbobway33 t1_j5o7g5s wrote

That stuff is STRONG I’ve scrubbed slightly to hard on my man parts with it once. ONCE. My god that burn is like no other

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