YankeeinNCandIhateit
YankeeinNCandIhateit t1_je1dtii wrote
Reply to comment by crowanima in When you need a new bottle opener, and also a reminder that better places exist than the Southern states where you’ve been living the past 20 years by Rauschenbusch
I spent 20 years all over the old north state. Can't say I miss it at all!
YankeeinNCandIhateit OP t1_jcnhtpm wrote
Reply to comment by 6th__extinction in Elicker forcibly evicts and demolishes tent city by YankeeinNCandIhateit
None of this would have happened without his approval. Just look at NHI to see the damage control his political appointees like Lenny and Mehul are running that spin machine nonstop to try and contain the fallout.
Submitted by YankeeinNCandIhateit t3_11u748x in newhaven
YankeeinNCandIhateit t1_jciu3zu wrote
Reply to comment by Bluegreenmountain in Reasonably priced gyms? by Difficult_Ad5098
I feel that comments like this are indicative of a larger issue facing CT. This huge influx of NYC folks especially since the start of the pandemic paying far more for everything because they think it's cheaper than what they were used to, while completely ignoring the fact that the median household income in New Haven is $48,973/yr. Source: https://www.census.gov/quickfacts/fact/table/newhavencityconnecticut/PST045222#qf-flag-X
This is why locals, and transplants from other LCOL areas get annoyed at folks paying $2500 a month for a one bedroom apartment or saying $300 a month is an acceptable price for a gym...
And we see this playing out with housing costs pricing out those of us who make "local" wages.
YankeeinNCandIhateit OP t1_jc234ni wrote
Reply to comment by pilsen1985 in Sick and tired of the gunfire by YankeeinNCandIhateit
Whitney avenue and Lawrence St. Third shooting in three months. And yes, this is known as a very safe area.
Submitted by YankeeinNCandIhateit t3_11q1d2c in newhaven
YankeeinNCandIhateit t1_jbcvjup wrote
Reply to Lesbian hang outs? by killitwithkindnesss
Blue orchid
Submitted by YankeeinNCandIhateit t3_11lkh0q in newhaven
YankeeinNCandIhateit t1_jaettrp wrote
LCI-Housing is a joke. My 14 month interaction with them resulted in no significant changes in the property, an inspector who clearly did not know what her job was or how to do it, and a city government (Elicker included) who didn't do shit despite emails, texts and phone calls. Voting his ass out of office this year is my top priority. It seems the director is as oblivious as she is confrontational to the reporter about just how lame her division is.
Also, every landlord knows to ignore the USPS letters sent by LCI. The fact they send them instead of using the judicial Marshalls is proof positive that they don't give a rats ass about tenants in this city and just feign ignorance when their investigations die.
The only bright spot in this entire debacle was the actual neighborhood specialist. That inspector documented and followed up despite the city itself throwing roadblocks in her way. If it weren't for her there would be no way I would continue to live in New Haven.
YankeeinNCandIhateit t1_j5evfsm wrote
Reply to comment by 100percent100percent in Obnoxiously loud car? A traffic camera might be listening by rossiterpj
Considering the fact that half the lights in New Haven are no longer functioning as designed, and instead flash red for one side and yellow for the other, this will be the default soon enough!
YankeeinNCandIhateit t1_j59xcfh wrote
Reply to comment by Professional-Tour621 in Landlord not dealing with maintenance requests by TheTurquoisePen
It's a terrible place to work. Low wages, toxic and abusive employers, zero labor laws to protect employees.
I left NC for an identical job in CT. My base salary went up over 50%, my workload reduced 20%, and I have a Union that has already proven their chops to stop attempts at management from screwing employees.
It's a beautiful state, with very small minded people. If you aren't a hetero, cis white male conservative Christian - WASPs only (and no, Catholics aren't Christians by their standards), you are an outsider and will be treated as such.
Many, many people that I have seen move from other areas to NC ended up leaving after some time because it just doesn't fit their cultural/worldviews.
YankeeinNCandIhateit t1_j5712pf wrote
Reply to comment by TheTurquoisePen in Landlord not dealing with maintenance requests by TheTurquoisePen
I wish I had better experiences to report. I can give you Justin Elicker's cell number. Not that it did me any good.
YankeeinNCandIhateit t1_j56n5hm wrote
File complaints with the city (LCI). You have to wait 21 days before filing a complaint with the court. The housing inspectors in New Haven are a useless crop, and their management is even worse, but you must have the documentation to actually force action via the courts. Good luck. My experience in this town has been nothing short of a nightmare.
YankeeinNCandIhateit t1_j55gljl wrote
Reply to Best veterinarian? by faelady8080
Haven't found one I trust yet...
YankeeinNCandIhateit t1_j504idg wrote
Reply to comment by green_lemonade in How to make friends? by No-Dot-2283
Thirding this! Blue orchid is my New Haven "Cheers", for those of you who get the 80s TV show reference.
Submitted by YankeeinNCandIhateit t3_1045wcb in newhaven
YankeeinNCandIhateit t1_j2ny43g wrote
Reply to I’m moving to New Haven having never previously lived here, how can I make friends? by faqabetic
Blue orchid (Court and Orange St) - great food, great drinks, owned by a gay couple, and I've met half of my New Haven friends there...
YankeeinNCandIhateit t1_j2ex81l wrote
Reply to comment by ManyYam8275 in Taking train into Grand Central by [deleted]
Considering how many catalytic converters have been stolen from this parking lot in recent months, and the fact it is not a public parking lot, I would highly not recommend doing this.
YankeeinNCandIhateit t1_j2bwq2k wrote
Reply to Chill drinks on NYE? by [deleted]
Blue orchid
YankeeinNCandIhateit t1_j1j6m8v wrote
Reply to Is metered parking enforced Christmas Eve? by theGMd20
They will illegally ticket cars for street sweeping days that aren't announced or allowed, so yes.
YankeeinNCandIhateit t1_j06cctx wrote
Reply to New Haven Renter by ottologic
https://www.apartmentlist.com/ct/new-haven#rent-report
It's not impossible to find a 1 br for the 1100-1200 range, we did earlier this year in a nice neighborhood. Rents are going down after spiking this last year. The market is now being saturated with new luxury builds and the older stock owners which tried to raise rents to basically the same prices are now being forced to come back to earth.
YankeeinNCandIhateit t1_izhj1cr wrote
Reply to Recommendations for a new New Haven-er by faelady8080
Blue orchid (Court and Orange St downtown) is a fantastic bar and restaurant. Owned by a gay couple and most of my New Haven LGBTQ+ network has been a result of that place. There's Partners for the younger crowd, but for us younger professionals blue orchid is our queer cheers!
YankeeinNCandIhateit t1_je1dxo0 wrote
Reply to comment by YankeeinNCandIhateit in When you need a new bottle opener, and also a reminder that better places exist than the Southern states where you’ve been living the past 20 years by Rauschenbusch
Since creating that username, I escaped back to yankeeland!