You deserve to be held in love, honesty, and mutual effort. I hope you choose yourself and let her go. Sending love and strength.

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This is such a sweet thread of support. Appreciate the OP for asking! Today was better but I traveled to see my dad in SC and him and I have a pretty strained relationship. Christmas Eve & Christmas were pretty rough. I never argue with anyone but him and it’s because his tone and words are so rude. That puts me in my defensive body and we’re both strong characters so it gets pretty amplified. I don’t think he’s ever met anyone willing to stand up to him as I do. Needless to say, when we go through this, it hits my nervous system pretty hard and always takes a few days to bounce back from. On the positive, I’m coming home with a lot of information to sit with that I know will help further my personal growth and understanding of self. I’m grateful. Sending love to all, especially if the past weekend was difficult. May we all hold and be held gently. Bless up, fam!

Umami!!