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crazyhopelessguy t1_j1f4pqw wrote

Reply to comment by PassengerNumerous607 in TIFU by sleeping with a friend. And I mean just sleeping by PassengerNumerous607

This is so frigging cute. Obviously you like eachother. But you are close so taking it slow is a good idea. Why don't you go on a couple of romantic "disney" dates. You know you spend time together but nothing sexual happens.

Sex is what defines a mature relationship. I mean you can be friends and share stories and secrets like you were dating but you may not be.

Obviously this guy doesn't want that feeling yet and wants to sip at the sweet nector of young innocent love a bit more before moving onto a sexual relationship, if that ever happens.

If you like him lead him down the path, hang out with him date him just don't fuck him yet.

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PassengerNumerous607 OP t1_j1f6sfy wrote

So I would be fine with doing something like that, however I’m absolutely nowhere ready to do that and most of my relationships end pretty catastrophically, I haven’t figured myself out enough to hold it down, no matter how slow I go with someone or how mature and communicative I try to be with some And a matter how deeper connection is. If there are feelings there that I’m not recognizing yet, I am going to try not to act on them, we work together at two different jobs and I really don’t want to put that working relationship in jeopardy. I also don’t think we would be sexually compatible, he’s very reserved and even talks about sex in a way that cracks me up like he’s very matter-of-fact and alludes to stuff but never directly says it where I am vulgar and love it dirty

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crazyhopelessguy t1_j1fi9ks wrote

Oh well I guess you can wait and Maybe the timing will be right I the future.

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