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ZeroRozuMagika t1_ja7xph4 wrote

Reply to comment by powerposepenguin in TIFU by realizing I’m in a practical relationship rather than a loving one. by [deleted]

I guess maybe it did make me wonder if he really cared about me… which is stupid, I’m such an over thinker anyways.

I don’t know yet if I want to marry him. It’s too early in my opinion to make that call. But if everything goes well, then hopefully yes he’s the one I want to marry. We moved in together because we were spending most nights together so it just made sense.

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powerposepenguin t1_ja80ezk wrote

Sounds like you are definitely in a loving relationship then, you two could maybe talk about love language. The way that you feel loved and the way you show your love to him and visa versa. Either way I think you can figure that out as the foundation of your relationship sounds pretty solid :)

Another tip could be that you can write down what you want to hear from him? That he is looking for someone in his life that he might spend the rest of his life with. Not yet, but let him say it out loud that it's just the marriage part he doesn't like. He probably does see you as a potential life partner, even though you're both not ready to decide that.

And overthinking doesn't have to bad! Makes you a critical thinker, less likely of doing something impulsive. Shows you're smart too.

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