I'm willing to bet that given your immediate and lasting anxiety over this means that it's not an issue but is probably something that would be worth exploring in your therapy ironically enough.

"Here's something mundane that happened and has driven me up the wall"

You know it's insane, I assume your therapist knows you're a lesbian so why would it cause this much distress?

I remember watching getting blindsided by death and then realising none of it was real.

My first major critic of a movie. Just sat back with my little brother and both of us just thought it would have been far more enjoyable if there was no death or at the very least if everything was actually real.

Looking back I can see it was trying to tell a story about the loss of innocence and a child having to face how cruel the world can be but my god that was not how the movie was advertised at all from what I remember.

Ya lad no lad you want to be with isnt impressed by something the person they like enjoys doing.

Ya from my experience flappers are just a part of having calluses built up from climbing loads!

It took me months to get my first one, not that that's any amount of time to become experienced

Flappers don't mean you're experienced by any stretch but they certainly don't just happen to new climbers.

Absolutely the take I would go with.

Anyone into outdoorsy stuff is just a sucker for punishment anyway 🤣

"Didn't get a video, was climbing a super tough route and shredded my hands! Look!"

Attitude is everything in the first stages of making friends and everything else!

Who exactly do you imagine "they" is?