SirCSquared
SirCSquared t1_iy004kl wrote
Reply to comment by zach8555 in [Image] "8 ways to constantly improve" by Butterflies_Books
I think he captures a lot of humanist philosophy, and he’s so good at satire he’s able to make these pithy rebukes of consumerism, mass media, and the baseless absurdity of our longings. He’s just excellent. I recommend Deadeye Dick.
SirCSquared t1_ixzv9v5 wrote
Reply to comment by barabara4 in [Image] "8 ways to constantly improve" by Butterflies_Books
I’d depersonalize that language a bit. Things like pessimism and negativity are emotional experiences we all have. You may be in a place because of circumstances or experiences or chemistry that you reside in those states more often or regularly. But, you are not those things in terms of your intrinsic character.
This helped with my OCD treatment. I wasn’t an “anxious, obsessive” person, I was someone experiencing anxious preoccupation. Now that my disorder is treated and managed well, I don’t identify with it at all.
SirCSquared t1_ixzuw69 wrote
Reply to comment by dedicated-pedestrian in [Image] "8 ways to constantly improve" by Butterflies_Books
This is true. In my 20s I found so much wisdom in the novels of Kurt Vonnegut.
Reading doesn’t have to always have some quantifiable goal or purpose. The act of reading itself is valuable. Do it enough and it’ll completely change your life.
SirCSquared OP t1_ixq6y14 wrote
Reply to comment by Harlequins-Joker in LPT: Just because it’s a holiday doesn’t mean you have to spend it with family/loved ones who are detrimental to your mental health. Happy Thanksgiving! by SirCSquared
Totally normal. You mourn the people you know they’ll never be.
SirCSquared OP t1_ixoqjbj wrote
Reply to comment by Infinite6700 in LPT: Just because it’s a holiday doesn’t mean you have to spend it with family/loved ones who are detrimental to your mental health. Happy Thanksgiving! by SirCSquared
Punctuation exists.
SirCSquared OP t1_ixogd6i wrote
Reply to comment by Spaghett-about-it in LPT: Just because it’s a holiday doesn’t mean you have to spend it with family/loved ones who are detrimental to your mental health. Happy Thanksgiving! by SirCSquared
Maybe something to explore with professional help if you can.
SirCSquared OP t1_ixntttf wrote
SirCSquared OP t1_ixntt4k wrote
Reply to comment by nezukotanjiro150 in LPT: Just because it’s a holiday doesn’t mean you have to spend it with family/loved ones who are detrimental to your mental health. Happy Thanksgiving! by SirCSquared
In some cases, the alternative is better.
SirCSquared OP t1_ixnk162 wrote
Reply to comment by lniuunbu in LPT: Just because it’s a holiday doesn’t mean you have to spend it with family/loved ones who are detrimental to your mental health. Happy Thanksgiving! by SirCSquared
Well, it’s an anonymous form of media. I don’t care about clout, but there’s quite a few people who struggle to separate themselves from relationships that don’t serve them anymore.
SirCSquared OP t1_ixnhu75 wrote
Reply to comment by MagAqua in LPT: Just because it’s a holiday doesn’t mean you have to spend it with family/loved ones who are detrimental to your mental health. Happy Thanksgiving! by SirCSquared
I’m with people I like being with!
SirCSquared OP t1_ixmdrau wrote
Reply to comment by PalmerDixon in LPT: Just because it’s a holiday doesn’t mean you have to spend it with family/loved ones who are detrimental to your mental health. Happy Thanksgiving! by SirCSquared
I’m 36, over several years of unpacking and evaluating and forgiving and disappointment I just realized these are not people with the emotional toolkit to meet me even 1/6th, let alone half, the way.
SirCSquared t1_iwx6je9 wrote
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Cringe.
SirCSquared t1_iy6if9o wrote
Reply to comment by Odd_Rutabaga_7810 in [Image] "8 ways to constantly improve" by Butterflies_Books
Very edgy.