Honestly I think it’s sweet that you care about y’all’s relationship so much. For what I understand being a parent can make you kind of paranoid?

A 14 year old “dating” an 11 year old makes my stomach turn a bit to think about and I’m sad that no one (parents, family, friends) called this out/intervened on your behalf even without knowing other details. For your sake, I’m glad that person is out of your life for good. For others’ sake, I hope he got psychological help. I’m glad you are considering the work of healing because you deserve that.

Hey OP that is soooo much trauma to go through at a young age and I hope the person that did that to you faced real consequences. I would hope that you have sought/ are seeking therapy for that trauma. It may help you with the scars that cannot be seen and help how you feel about the ones that are visible. Sounds like boyfriend made a whoopsie and is sorry and won’t be making that mistake again.

I don’t think reprimanded is the word you are looking for as normally this just means to be told off. The perpetrator (depending on the age) deserves legal consequence if at all possible. Given that the last of it happened 4 years ago it might not be possible. If the perpetrator was the same age they likely need/ needed extreme behavioral rehab.

Girl you were groomed as a teen by an abusive predator and were indoctrinated to believe that marriage is more sacred than your own life and health. Good for you getting you and your kids out of there. Have some Grace for yourself. You are getting your daughter the help she needs now and that’s all you can do really. Don’t be afraid to ask whatever community/friends you have for help.

This is not what I expected when I read the title but maybe that intimate moment was not meant to be recorded and destiny was intervening via your f up. You didn’t lose your job, everyone makes mistakes and you are less likely to do it again.

Florida WOMAN this time. Nice twist on a classic