I’m not really sure why you’re getting downvoted you are a victim. BPD definitely makes it hard to remember what’s normal and what behavior you should accept or not accept. However, doing what you’re doing isn’t gonna take away your instinct to get attached; that’s inevitable with BPD. if you have the money do DBT therapy which is the only way I’ve ever seen people with BPD genuinely make massive improvements to their behavior. Not that you were necessarily doing anything wrong to begin with
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I’m not really sure why you’re getting downvoted you are a victim. BPD definitely makes it hard to remember what’s normal and what behavior you should accept or not accept. However, doing what you’re doing isn’t gonna take away your instinct to get attached; that’s inevitable with BPD. if you have the money do DBT therapy which is the only way I’ve ever seen people with BPD genuinely make massive improvements to their behavior. Not that you were necessarily doing anything wrong to begin with