LongjumpingAgency245

LongjumpingAgency245 t1_jegidpi wrote

If she harasses him, he needs to report her. https://www.eeoc.gov/sexual-harassment#:~:text=Although%20the%20law%20doesn't,the%20victim%20being%20fired%20or

It doesn't matter that he is a male. Men can be sexually harassed. We are trained on this at work....at it doesn't matter if we are the recipient of the behavior. We are encouraged to report if we observe activity that makes us uncomfortable.

The BF shouldn't suffer through unwanted attention.

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LongjumpingAgency245 t1_jefyk9r wrote

Does your BFs cheat partner's know they were banging? I love when they say "I changed" like they can change overnight. He is delusional. Did you ever discuss why he cheated? Besides that, she was there. How is he changing so the scenario doesn't happen again?

If your spidey senses go off while on vacation, you end it. Let the spouse know what wonderful, supportive, and loving wife he has, and what POS her best friend is.

Be prepared to leave to leave if you have to. You don't deserve this.

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LongjumpingAgency245 t1_je8cowt wrote

Wow, you are strong, resilient, and confident. Let her try her mind games, but pay her no mind. It appears her husband and your bf are starting to see it. Ask your bf how to handle when she is getting hostile. Maybe you can have a safeword that you use if she tries to cause problems. It's all on her.

If you need moral support that weekend, you can always give an update.

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