JustShibzThings

JustShibzThings t1_iuhtk11 wrote

I was a very spoiled and entitled kid, and a major asshole in my pre teen years.

Only family with money on my mom's side and got fed up with family stealing from me, so I started mouthing off. Mainly on cousins and their kids that lived relatively far and would travel to come over for family events we always hosted.

Fast forward to my 20s at a family party, and one cousin corners me saying I used to bully him and it made him feel bad back then. He was standing there looking hurt, and I thought he was going to hit me or something, but then he just said childhood is weird.

I don't even remember bullying him ever , since I maybe only met him once or twice before. But I definitely knew I probably deserved a talking to.

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JustShibzThings t1_iu49sa0 wrote

Definitely ended up dating a narcissist when I told myself, "OK, let me date for personality and not looks this time."

That shit put me in a year and a half funk...

I didn't even know what a narcissist truly was until a few years ago, but finding out that is what she was, was a huge relief for my self esteem.

Everyone around me loves hanging around, and has good things to say if they aren't just screwing around. Then she comes in and had a bunch of bad shit to say, but that she believed I could change.

While I'm doing a bit shitty after, I had mutual friends share she's making a shit ton of money at a major tech company. It's what she loved the most, money and status.

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