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Madeline2535 OP t1_jdffw5j wrote

There’s a lot of kids that like starting stuff at my school so I never really know when someone is gonna try messing with me.

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adrolter t1_jdfljvu wrote

I think there's some middle ground here. Don't use it as your first or only tool to resolve conflicts, because it's a pretty shitty tool and will only cause you all sorts of problems that will negatively affect pretty much every aspect of your life if you over-rely on it. Buuuuut sometimes it's an effective tool when all other reasonable means have been exhausted and it's used with restraint. I would be especially careful resorting to it at all if you're kind of a loner though, because it can sometimes lead to situations where cliques will gang up on you physically, and these kinds of things can spiral out of control. Ideally, though, you've now established some respect and boundaries with your rude classmates and you'll be left alone now that they know you'll get scrappy if pushed too far.

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Madeline2535 OP t1_jdflwg5 wrote

I have a good group of friends at school, but they don’t like getting physical lol

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adrolter t1_jdfmdi7 wrote

I mean, fair enough, to be honest lol. It's best to not make it habit either way, but hopefully you won't need it again now that your classmate has a fat lip

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Madeline2535 OP t1_jdfmnkz wrote

Luckily I didn’t break my hand hitting her lol

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adrolter t1_jdfmwj5 wrote

That's definitely better than the alternative!

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