ZeroRozuMagika t1_ja7z36w wrote on February 27, 2023 at 2:59 PM

Reply to comment by iAmBalfrog in TIFU by realizing I’m in a practical relationship rather than a loving one. by [deleted]

We would both like a smaller wedding. Weddings are expensive. I would love that, with a wedding dress I made myself. I want that display of affection, party and all. But it’s only real and meaningful to me if it’s with someone with whom you have a healthy happy relationship.

iAmBalfrog t1_ja85bs2 wrote on February 27, 2023 at 3:42 PM

In your post you haven't listed a single negative thing this man is doing outside of having a progressive view on weddings. You can ask any number of married men and women whether 10-15 years later butterflies still exist daily. He seems like a relatively nice guy, you seem to be set on a wedding, he seems to be okay with marriage but thinks a wedding is a public display for what he thinks should be private.

Neither of you are in the wrong for having a preference, but I doubt he would break up with you for making an off handed comment, whereas that seems to be your logical go to. Hence the large amount of comments disagreeing with you.