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[deleted] OP t1_iuiby6j wrote

Reply to comment by ellepre in My (27 F) brother (20 M) calls his girlfriend (24 F) mommy 😂😭😭 by [deleted]

Oh hell naw, I’m never letting him live this down. I won’t shame him but ain’t no I’m letting this go

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randomlyrandomrandy t1_iuida7u wrote

So… you ARE going to shame him

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[deleted] OP t1_iuif78f wrote

It’ll be an inside joke between us soemthjg like “hey mommy can you pass the salt” during dinner with our parents

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GHERU42 t1_iuifhfb wrote

That’s a yes to the shaming then.

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[deleted] OP t1_iuifjpx wrote

Why is everyone so sensitive, y’all never do this with your siblings?

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GHERU42 t1_iuigby1 wrote

By the age of 27 I realized that there are some things that are playful jokes and others that are shaming.

You’re an adult, maybe try acting like one.

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Whydidyoupostthatomg t1_iuinb65 wrote

Im ngl I'm convinced OP is either a troll or added an extra 17 years to the age they claim to be

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MatticusFinch89 t1_iuigiwf wrote

I would be furious if my siblings teased me about something like this

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Loco_Motive_ t1_iuipius wrote

The sensitivity is probably best explained like this: imagine you enjoy a thing. You are not asking for other‘s opinions, you just want to enjoy the thing in peace. In comes a nosy little cunt that is way too curious about what you are doing.

You don‘t mind too much, the cunt is interested, the cunt get information. Now the cunt has never heard about this thing being enjoyed, so the cunt voices their opinion.

You still don‘t mind. But now the cunt is insecure because you seemed to care so little for their opinion. So they start asking for other people‘s opinion on the thing you enjoy. Now suddenly, everyone is up in your business asking questions and giving out opinions you had never asked for.

The cunt does not even need to say any names, other people will put two and two together. Add to that the fact that the cunt, in their inexorable quest for judgement validation, has likely exacerbated things and misrepresented the thing you enjoy. Not through malintent, just through lack of knowledge.

The consequences range from mildly annoying to downright having legislature created to stop the thing you enjoy because some bigots can‘t live with the thought of you enjoying it.

Hope you get the idea.

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MaddMadd- t1_iuis7w1 wrote

I'm with you its a sibling thing I doubt it's that deep to him if you did say something jokingly the comments are def harsh I would joke about this with my brother if this happened lol

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Loco_Motive_ t1_iuid1tr wrote

Fuck outta their business. Wth?

With that attitude, the only thing you stand to win is a broken relationship with your brother. You do you, just remember: if you play stupid games, you win stupid prizes.

The only way to really know what it means is to ask him with an open attitude. We don‘t know, either.

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tinoxox t1_iuidjqg wrote

What do you mean by “not letting this go”?

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[deleted] OP t1_iuif917 wrote

Do you have siblings

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LordLuscius t1_iuigmo9 wrote

Look, it's almost on par with giving I'm a hard time if he were gay. Bust his balls for the way he dresses, sure, even his salary, but leave his relationship out of it

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tinoxox t1_iuigz8l wrote

I do. Now please explain what you mean by “not letting this go”?

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