Submitted by [deleted] t3_yievgz in relationship_advice
[deleted] OP t1_iuif78f wrote
Reply to comment by randomlyrandomrandy in My (27 F) brother (20 M) calls his girlfriend (24 F) mommy 😂😭😭 by [deleted]
It’ll be an inside joke between us soemthjg like “hey mommy can you pass the salt” during dinner with our parents
GHERU42 t1_iuifhfb wrote
That’s a yes to the shaming then.
[deleted] OP t1_iuifjpx wrote
Why is everyone so sensitive, y’all never do this with your siblings?
GHERU42 t1_iuigby1 wrote
By the age of 27 I realized that there are some things that are playful jokes and others that are shaming.
You’re an adult, maybe try acting like one.
Whydidyoupostthatomg t1_iuinb65 wrote
Im ngl I'm convinced OP is either a troll or added an extra 17 years to the age they claim to be
MatticusFinch89 t1_iuigiwf wrote
I would be furious if my siblings teased me about something like this
Loco_Motive_ t1_iuipius wrote
The sensitivity is probably best explained like this: imagine you enjoy a thing. You are not asking for other‘s opinions, you just want to enjoy the thing in peace. In comes a nosy little cunt that is way too curious about what you are doing.
You don‘t mind too much, the cunt is interested, the cunt get information. Now the cunt has never heard about this thing being enjoyed, so the cunt voices their opinion.
You still don‘t mind. But now the cunt is insecure because you seemed to care so little for their opinion. So they start asking for other people‘s opinion on the thing you enjoy. Now suddenly, everyone is up in your business asking questions and giving out opinions you had never asked for.
The cunt does not even need to say any names, other people will put two and two together. Add to that the fact that the cunt, in their inexorable quest for judgement validation, has likely exacerbated things and misrepresented the thing you enjoy. Not through malintent, just through lack of knowledge.
The consequences range from mildly annoying to downright having legislature created to stop the thing you enjoy because some bigots can‘t live with the thought of you enjoying it.
Hope you get the idea.
[deleted] OP t1_iuixhy5 wrote
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[deleted] OP t1_iuiogbe wrote
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MaddMadd- t1_iuis7w1 wrote
I'm with you its a sibling thing I doubt it's that deep to him if you did say something jokingly the comments are def harsh I would joke about this with my brother if this happened lol
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