... I don't think women give much of a shit what your character looks like in a game.

I played an undead female warlock in WoW whose jaw was missing.

If a woman looked at that and thought to herself, "perv, why is MaleficentPi playing a female warlock, must be some kind of super gross dude with a thing for female characters" I'd have questions about why she's assuming a man she never met would find a rotting female corpse with no lower jaw sexy AF.

Night elf, sure. Orc, maybe. Troll, okay.. Dwarf, sure.

But an undead warlock?

Methinks the lady doth project too much