Agree 10000%. OP, whenever you start working, even part-time, start squirreling money away in a Roth IRA. Annual limit to contribute is $6.5k. Might or might not seem like a lot depending on how you view it. Your future self will thank you.

If I can recommend a book, you should read: the simple path to wealth by JL Collins.

Also, maybe learn to treat women with respect, and not view them as something crazy or not crazy to stick your dick in.