Helios4242 t1_j1n2v5x wrote
It's also important to normalize that people come in, and look good as, a variety of body types.
Who's more important? The person who's just lost weight or the person listening who isn't happy with their weight but isn't able to lose weight easily?
Expanding our discussion of attractiveness (i.e., "looking good") helps construct a framework where people lose weight for health reasons or because they wish to, but not because of a fatphobic society. I dont think that undermines a person who worked hard to lose weight.
Ghosthost2000 t1_j1p7zo0 wrote
I agree 100%! This is why I do not comment on what anyone looks like. I can accept a person as they are. This allows me to stay in my lane and still be supportive.
CasitaBandita t1_j1y5o4s wrote
that's a good lpt, thanks!
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