• Save and invest all your money into conservative share portfolios or EFTS.
• Have another stream of income so you're not solely reliant on stripping.
• Keep it completely to yourself. Keep it completely separate from your real life.
• If you get a boyfriend, lie and tell him you do something else for work. They do not need to know.

hahaha.

Yes, people want to non-stop put shrimps on my barbies... ;)

Mmm juicy question. Look I believe I fell into the sex industry at 18 after experiencing a lot of childhood trauma and abandonment. I was also in a sexually abusive non consensual relationship for 3 years as a teenager. Basically being raped. I believe that girls who end up stripping or fucking for money have fragmented boundaries. I wanted validation sexually for some reason...

Ive done extensive spiritual and emotional healing work on myself since the age of 24, so nearly 9 years. I would really hope that my future daughter would not have the desire to gravitate to that industry. That being said, if she does, then I would support her and not make her feel any shame about the choice to become a stripper or escort. I would encourage her to have multiple streams of income and do stripping along with another job. Or start her own business and do both for a while.

With 430 million monthly Reddit users, I'm not too worried about anyone identifying little ol strippy, slutty me ;))) just saying.

how else would you like to see proof??

The worst/ grossest would be the 10+ guys I danced on after they had pissed their own pants.

The most heart warming thing.. Mmmm maybe just the camaraderie amongst the girls. I still feel like the sisterhood in the sex industry is pretty strong compared with other industries. Despite the competition. I also met some great men who were short term regulars, who I really liked. I went to Cambodia with one on an extended party holiday.

Baha thats a technical question but I would love to know if you find out.

haha no worries. Yes I can see how people would think its the opposite. I think tho that as you get older as a women, you get naughtier and more confident.

Thats a good question and i think if differs from girl to girl. When I first started stripping at age 18 I did leave the club with a couple clients. I had sex with them for money and it was quite a bad experience. Like i was out of my depth leaving the club and i didnt have the boundaries to be like 'OKAY TIMES UP, IM GOING'. I also got drugged and raped in my early 20s under the pretence of an unofficial escort job.

After that I focused on JUST being a stripper. After I retired I had a little stint of JUST being an escort, not stripping in clubs. That went well, because I was much older (30s). I think escorting is better for mature women. I dont think its a great job for party girls in their 20s who dont know their boundaries. Because once your on an outcall or at someone's house, its easy for them to start dictating how the situation is going to go. You have to have really strong boundaries and REALLY have your shit together to consistently deal with real life escorting.

That being said, at my age now, I know a bunch of girls who have been in the industry for 15 years. Since they were 18 to late 30s. Many of them are strippers and escorts. They do both. They do a mix of work where they're working privately and through agencies, so they just do everything. In my history, Ive concentrated on one type of profession at a time..

In the last few years the actual stripping turned me on. So if I hadnt worked in 5 days or a week and I started taking my clothes off, I would get turned on. Towards the end of my career I also worked in a very loose club somewhere rural. I was getting up to all kinds of touching mischief there... I was pretty turned on. Im sure a customer made me come, or I made myself come on the customer. I would occasionally get so turned on at the start of a night i would go to the toilet and make myself come. Then come back and work a bit more seriously.

Ive had plenty of guys also come in their pants from me grinding on them during a dance. I've also danced on guys soaking wet from drink spills. Also danced on guys that have literally pissed their pants and dont realise.

For the first 5-7 years I was very robotic. If you're working night after night you get desensitised. You also dont get pleasure as its just clothes on, clothes off, relentlessly for 9+ hours.

Eg cheeky strip/ cheeky fuck for money.

Haha. Um well we call them 'lappies' for lap dances. And even today amongst the girls we refer to any kind of sex work or stripping as 'going for a cheeky'. If you're enquiring with another girl about her work, the language would be, 'how's cheekies going?'

Im now 33 and have been retired from stripping in clubs for 4.5 years. Im now doing different stuff in my businesses and have clients. I never was someone that had a lot of stripping 'regulars'. I more just ran from customer to customer and didnt like chatting to them that much. Now that Im older ,I would probably focus on getting more regulars and fleecing them for as much as possible. I didnt really like any emotional intimacy with customers when I was stripping.. Having regulars requires more emotional intimacy and relationship building in my opinion.

Sometimes when I wasnt moving, You can sit out the back with a jumper and pants on tho if you want too..

I used to have no workout routein at all. The stripping itself makes you loose weight. being in heels for a 9 hour shift and dancing on stage make you loose a lot of weight. Straight after I stopped I gained 7 kilos and it was incredibly hard to loose the weight. Im now about 5 kg over my stripping weight at the end of my career, Although, I sat around 50kilos for the first few years when I took a lot of dr*gs.

Lol my normal business is not real estate. ;) I wont disclose it because I have real life clients that I dont need to know about my stripping history. If you're asking do I invest in real estate? No, according to my research, Shares is a better and less stressful investment for me personally. So all my savings are sitting in a diversified share portfolio. Mostly EFTs.

whats that?

In Australian VIP rooms the same thing happens, compared with the normal lapdance rooms. Depending on the club the VIP rooms might be for 1 hour dances or longer. Or they might be booked out by a bucks party to host a 'show' in. Its not common for sex or blow jobs to happen. Any girl that tries that would normally be sent home/ fired. That being said, there may be more underground strip clubs/ brothels that do allow that kind of thing. I worked at the mainstream big clubs.

I dont know what that is sir.

There were plenty of times groups of bucks would get thrown out of the clubs. Lots of near fights happened on the streets right in front of the cameras. I personally only got a customer in trouble once or twice from harassing me. I was more like a money obsessed robot, so I just went from guy to guy trying to fleece them for their money. I didnt get too caught up with drama and the other girls.

Pretty good. Its probably very similar to the USA but more outdoorsy.

Around $150K. I would work around 2 nights a week on average. Some weeks 1 night, some weeks 3 nights. I would also take weeks if not months off. I was also drinking a lotttt and partying a lottt in the first 5 years.

in Australia? Not where I live lol.

We dont have champaign rooms in Australia. Not in the 9+ clubs I worked in on the East Coast. We have VIP areas, but they're literally just for longer/ more private lap dances.

I've read and heard a lot of stuff about how in the US the girls make their money by giving blow jobs and sex. 100% that is not how it is in Australia. There were nights during my career I let a customer touch too much and I was sent home/ fired. There's plenty of touching clubs where you're still not allowed to do sexual acts. Going home with customers was a fireable offence in nearly all the clubs.

There was only one club in Canberra at the end of my career where they didn't care about mild sex acts. Like pussy touching. I got really dirty there. Probably because I was older and more daring. The owners saw me on camera and had a joke with me about it. So yes.. no Champaign rooms, thats a myth in Australia.