rustybullrake
rustybullrake t1_je28ziz wrote
Reply to (yet another!) house rental question! by redditbrock
>We have a budget of around $2800
>choices have been slim
This is the year I finally get priced out of my apartment, isn't it?
rustybullrake t1_jdf4573 wrote
Reply to comment by tugboat8 in Where to go to eat chips and salsa and drink margaritas?? by Common_Sir7138
This is truly the only thing they're good at, in my opinion.
I always enjoyed sharing a pitcher of the "top shelf" margaritas and some nachos, but every time I ordered an actual meal it was a disappointment.
rustybullrake t1_jd3kpzm wrote
Reply to Why do Rhode Islanders say bubbler when most people don't? Here's what we found out by Katie_Lan
After scrolling past 10 advertisements: >no one asked could definitively say why Rhode Islanders call it a bubbler
Neat.
>But there is a plausible theory.
>As you’ve probably gathered from the examples given above, when bubblers, as we know them, came out as a new technology people wanted to distinguish them from the older styles of drinking and water fountains. They had already had drinking/water fountains that they needed a cup to use – these were different. These had water that “bubbled” up and that they could drink directly from them, and they wanted language to describe that experience. And that language made its way into the mainstream, into newspapers like The Providence Journal, and, in this region, it stuck.
So we call them bubblers because that's what people started calling them because that's what they did and then people kept calling them that. But we're not certain.
rustybullrake t1_jcai5h2 wrote
Reply to Anyone know what’s spilling into the Providence river/ where it’s coming from right now? by forestfears
That's not great.
Might be worth contacting the EPA's National Response Center: 1-800-424-8802.
rustybullrake t1_jc880u2 wrote
Of course GoLocalProv would interview the landlord and not the restaurant owner.
rustybullrake t1_ja8kpus wrote
Reply to comment by lestermagnum in How far in advance are we notified about parking bans? by sillysunflower99
Here's where they get the info, without any ads:
https://www.ribroadcasters.com/News_and_Events/Closings_Delays/
rustybullrake t1_ja7ogkm wrote
Reply to BIPOC yoga? by [deleted]
I always thought the West End is to the West Side as College Hill is to the East Side,
rustybullrake t1_j9fyz0v wrote
Can we get some sort of explanation?
rustybullrake t1_j7z9srf wrote
Madrid European Bakery. It's semi quiet, though sometimes pretty full of people working.
rustybullrake t1_j7804q3 wrote
Reply to Nothing But Roads by CharcoalCharts
Interesting concept but the low resolution and aliasing take away from it.
You're also missing Conanicut Island and Block Island.
rustybullrake t1_j72igsk wrote
Reply to comment by baxter2417 in 2018 Toyota Forerunner (white) STOLEN from my apartment in Pawtucket. It was last known to be driven around PVD and Attleboro area of on 1/31 in the early morning. If anyone sees this being driven or parked somewhere I would really appreciate it in the comments by baxter2417
Will do and good luck!
rustybullrake t1_j725uty wrote
Reply to 2018 Toyota Forerunner (white) STOLEN from my apartment in Pawtucket. It was last known to be driven around PVD and Attleboro area of on 1/31 in the early morning. If anyone sees this being driven or parked somewhere I would really appreciate it in the comments by baxter2417
I'm always wary of posts asking to be contacted for stolen vehicles or missing persons because there's no way to verify it.
No offense to OP but posts like this could be used to track down someone escaping an abusive situation.
If anyone spots this vehicle they should contact the police.
rustybullrake t1_j6syffy wrote
Reply to Remember when the Rhode Island National Guard went door to door looking for New Yorkers? by ReadsTheScience
This whole account is shit stirring garbage.
rustybullrake t1_j6n556d wrote
It makes good sense and I'd like to see it done here.
rustybullrake t1_j6dsuhy wrote
Reply to comment by Status_Silver_5114 in Favorite RI bagels? by fill-in-theblank
Fun exercise: Take a look at that account's comment history and tell me whether you think it's the owner of Rebelle or not.
rustybullrake t1_j6d3jho wrote
Reply to Soupy Saturday in Westerly by WestBoundExitSign
That's a beautiful sight
rustybullrake t1_j68ouj7 wrote
Reply to comment by FrutaFertil in The owner of Rebelle Bagel was just named as 2023 James Beard Award Semifinalist by lestermagnum
It's not diagnosis, just casual observation of repeated and consistent patterns of behavior.
>Says as much about you as you think it says about her.
It doesn't, but I can understand why you might feel the need to tell yourself it does. Vulnerability is a difficult feeling to sit with.
rustybullrake t1_j68j1u4 wrote
Wildfires and mass shootings being casually grouped in with snowstorms as common occurrences is one hell of a sign of the times.
rustybullrake t1_j62ac3w wrote
Reply to comment by nelson64 in The owner of Rebelle Bagel was just named as 2023 James Beard Award Semifinalist by lestermagnum
Yeah the double standard is real and BS. Like I said, intersectional circlejerk. I have no trouble believing there wouldn't be nearly as much enthusiastic anger about her if she were a white man (and her behavior in that case would likely be viewed as typical). I definitely feel like the less I know about local business owners, the better, else I'll be out of places to eat at. I'm sure having an acerbic social media presence is small potatoes compared to what's out there.
I totally understand separating the artist from the art, and I'm glad you're able to and that you haven't had any negative interactions. I've heard nothing but good things about the food at Little Sister. If it were just the online drama and rumors I'd probably go, but I can't in good conscience support her businesses after seeing it firsthand. Mistreating staff is a deal breaker for me. More's the pity.
The drama over her online behavior was amusing before it started to become apparent that it's a compulsion for her. Just look at her replies to reviews on Google. As such, I think the intentionally inflammatory framing of posts like this one is in poor taste. I don't get any enjoyment out of folks who aren't in a position to help themselves being goaded into acting out. But at the same time it's complicated since she's a pseudo public figure who readily feeds into it? I don't know. Not my circus, not my monkeys.
Anyway, thanks for the perspective. Enjoy the food for me!
rustybullrake t1_j622hx6 wrote
Reply to comment by FrutaFertil in The owner of Rebelle Bagel was just named as 2023 James Beard Award Semifinalist by lestermagnum
It's not diagnosis, just casual observation of repeated and consistent patterns of behavior.
Compulsively replying to quite literally every single fractionally negative comment is part of what I mean when by emotional regulation issues. It would suggest an inability to self-soothe.
rustybullrake t1_j5yv4h7 wrote
Reply to comment by nelson64 in The owner of Rebelle Bagel was just named as 2023 James Beard Award Semifinalist by lestermagnum
There's definitely some intersectional circlejerking going on, but I've personally witnessed her lean into berating one of her employees, fully in front of all the customers on a busy day at Rebelle. I haven't been back since.
She appears to have legitimate emotional regulation issues, which she compensates for by framing herself as a perpetual underdog pitted against "the haters."
Given the apparent regularity of distasteful real life, social media, and review-responding incidents, the resulting widespread dislike for her isn't all that surprising to me. Reddit loves outrage and righteous indignation.
rustybullrake t1_j5tupng wrote
Reply to I am interested in learning about the history of Aquidneck Island. Can you recommend me any in depth (the deeper, the better) articles, books, documentaries, YouTube channels, museums, etc on this subject? Thank you in advance. by PinkSwallowLove
Not to discourage you from seeking info here, but this is exactly the sort of thing your local librarian would be able to help with.
rustybullrake t1_j50g2k9 wrote
Reply to Making Local Friends by Anxious_Lily
Anytime I've made friends it has been as a secondary effect of having regular, repeated interactions someplace I'm at anyway. In my case school, work, bars.
Anytime I've grown apart from friends, it's been because there hasn't been regular, repeated interactions because I'm not at those places anymore. Out of sight, out of mind.
Intention isn't nearly as effective as repetition, that's how you get the "oh hey we should totally hang out soon!" that never happens because life keeps getting in the way. This is why post-school is such a hard time for friendships for so many people.
Which is to say, your best bet for finding and forming friendships is to be somewhere regularly and repeatedly. School, work, bars, gyms, religious groups, book clubs, charity groups, etc. Doesn't really matter where, so long as you are likely to run into people you jibe with. Show up, keep showing up, talk to people. Friendships should follow organically.
And don't listen to folks who say this is a New England problem. It's a post-school problem anywhere, and likely a consequence of work taking up so much of our free time and energy.
Good luck!
rustybullrake t1_j4ldap2 wrote
Reply to At filming a "YouTube Prank" by yajanikos
This is pathetic.
rustybullrake t1_je2f6hs wrote
Reply to comment by redditbrock in (yet another!) house rental question! by redditbrock
It's not you, it's the market. Good luck!