redditslayer95

redditslayer95 t1_iwkl1wc wrote

I've practiced this for the last few years and I find it helpful.

Always think about what you're going to say before you say it. And put it in words exactly how you think it. Even if you have to take a moment to reorder those thoughts, it's okay. It takes time and with practice, you'll improve and will be able to do it effortlessly.

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redditslayer95 t1_iwkkha2 wrote

I'm gonna be honest, I was talking to this guy I'd never met in person and he started being pushy like "lemme see you" kinda pushy.. I thought, "nope" and saved myself. I'm not about to let someone be too clingy when we haven't even met yet, it was only a week. I never replied after he said, "lemme see you".

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