plsentertainme

plsentertainme t1_ixjtif7 wrote

Hey man, sucks right now but let this be a boost to your self esteem! You were able to pull the cute, german exchange student. That should be a testament that maybe you need to put yourself out there more often! I feel like 95% of the time, used to be me included, guys aren’t successful in the dating world because they lack the confidence to even attempt it. I don’t claim to be a beautiful man or anything but I used to be really hard on myself about my looks and personality. I have come to find out that as soon as I accepted myself for who I was, relationships started coming into my life. So don’t think this is the only girl you ever will make a connection with, it is just the first one.

Pro tip: keep talking to girls like theyre a person and not an object or goal. You did exactly the right thing and that will translate so well into other relationships. Go in with 0 expectations other than you might make a new friend. Also, as other commenters have said, 1 hour is really not that big of a deal and you can still ask this girl to prom.

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