myWholeWifeIsaLie OP t1_iy9zq6z wrote on November 29, 2022 at 9:17 PM

Reply to comment by AgoraiosBum in Found out Wife cheated on me a bunch during bootcamp 10 years ago by myWholeWifeIsaLie

Yeah I mean it's lite on details for a reason. Still just processing. But you're right I need to just keep processing and keep forgiveness as an option. She insists pretty strongly its the first option

myWholeWifeIsaLie OP t1_iy9bje6 wrote on November 29, 2022 at 6:43 PM

Reply to comment by [deleted] in Found out Wife cheated on me a bunch during bootcamp 10 years ago by myWholeWifeIsaLie

Thanks my dude

myWholeWifeIsaLie OP t1_iy94m88 wrote on November 29, 2022 at 5:58 PM

Reply to comment by Silent-Salamander-26 in Found out Wife cheated on me a bunch during bootcamp 10 years ago by myWholeWifeIsaLie

I got married well after I got out. To specifically avoid this shit.

myWholeWifeIsaLie OP t1_iy93yjw wrote on November 29, 2022 at 5:54 PM

Reply to comment by wuflubuckaroo13 in Found out Wife cheated on me a bunch during bootcamp 10 years ago by myWholeWifeIsaLie

luckily I'm long gone from the military.

myWholeWifeIsaLie OP t1_iy8c3ze wrote on November 29, 2022 at 2:43 PM

Reply to comment by Gosc101 in Found out Wife cheated on me a bunch during bootcamp 10 years ago by myWholeWifeIsaLie

yea

myWholeWifeIsaLie OP t1_iy8asyb wrote on November 29, 2022 at 2:32 PM

Reply to comment by Gosc101 in Found out Wife cheated on me a bunch during bootcamp 10 years ago by myWholeWifeIsaLie

I know oh my god. Well I'm in a masters program so I'm doing well with that. And a friend who can help me out if I decide to move out.

I'm just processing because it's a big deal. And I don't want to make rash decisions

myWholeWifeIsaLie OP t1_iy8afxi wrote on November 29, 2022 at 2:30 PM

Reply to comment by TheCheddarBay in Found out Wife cheated on me a bunch during bootcamp 10 years ago by myWholeWifeIsaLie

I've been out for 7 years and no I didn't

myWholeWifeIsaLie OP t1_iy899lw wrote on November 29, 2022 at 2:20 PM

Reply to comment by Better_Addition_2872 in Found out Wife cheated on me a bunch during bootcamp 10 years ago by myWholeWifeIsaLie

we married at 28 btw. If that changes anything. I just put it in the post

myWholeWifeIsaLie OP t1_iy88hu0 wrote on November 29, 2022 at 2:14 PM

Reply to comment by Gosc101 in Found out Wife cheated on me a bunch during bootcamp 10 years ago by myWholeWifeIsaLie

I've always had suspicions about later incidents. But this one was before what I thought. And in bootcamp. It's like I was proven wrong by the Marine Corps. Because they literally warned all of us about this shit lmao. I feel like an idiot for being so wrong on that.

myWholeWifeIsaLie OP t1_iy87ago wrote on November 29, 2022 at 2:04 PM

Reply to comment by Creative_Recover in Found out Wife cheated on me a bunch during bootcamp 10 years ago by myWholeWifeIsaLie

I don't think the std thing is currently an issue but everything else you said yea. I've been as spaced as I could. Not sure if it will heal cuz we've been together since middle school and its like we grew up together.Then It's like she went from "wife" to "someone else" almost instantly.