I don't think it is about self talk as much as it is about objectivity, which is hard to achieve when you are the subject. It may be the case (as it was for me in one past situation) that you are so conscious and concerned about your weakness in some area that you apply extra effort and develop coping mechanisms that allow you to be competent or better at it.
hickdog896 t1_j1gnga6 wrote
Reply to comment by Igrowdaily in [Image] My fellow Kings and Queens, dont let your negative selftalk mud who you truly are 💎 by mantasmark
I don't think it is about self talk as much as it is about objectivity, which is hard to achieve when you are the subject. It may be the case (as it was for me in one past situation) that you are so conscious and concerned about your weakness in some area that you apply extra effort and develop coping mechanisms that allow you to be competent or better at it.