only when it was team kia were they anything near good. i purchased then and made the mistake in 2018. Made an apt to look at a vehicle i was interested in only to be told numerous reasons why all of a sudden the vehicle was no where to be found. they had a new sales person and pressured me into looking at different vehicles. in which i mean one shitty dodge i had no interest in. i ended up purchasing the worst car i have ever owned. a 2011 kia optima lx ...that car has had more problems and recalls than i can count..it has sat in my driveway since may of 2020...at this point its about paid off...i only put 30k on it..but these people screwed me and many others... also whoever carlos is should get fucked for preying on women to make a sale (one of my friends) but thats another story for a different time.. i never want to get my vehicle serviced here in fear of the sht ive been through and the way employees have been towards customers but in order for recall work to get done...or get my vehicle inspected for free i basically have to suck it up..or find another kia dealership...but kias and hyundais are no longer reliable and the companies refuse to stand by them..but only 2 customers get compensation...thats complete bullshit.. best believe me though im coming after dan obrien and kia corporate when the throttle body sensor investigation allows me to and then some

you havent physically cheated in other words but you have emotionally cheated on this person. And like others mentioned youeve said your coworker more than your significant other...your partner is clearly secondary and not priority. has your partner expressed any concern towards this work relationship? if so, how did you respond? have you come to your partner about any of this yet? i am genuinely curious because i myself feel like the outsider looking in with my boyfriend and his coworker so i as well am looking for insight ,not to be a bitch. the drama...though...you are the consequences you create...you say your aware but why have you continued to cross boundaries and allow this to grow into something more..your pulling away from your partner..stop allowing yourself to stoop so low. Stop making excuses, stop pitying yourself, stop being selfish. you need to put your focus into your significant other.You need to change yourself if you want your relationship to work. if you havent caused trauma yet ..your about to go down shits creek and i could only imagine the hell you will create. ive been on all sides of this..you need to limit contact with your coworker.be honest with your partner, open up to them about this problem. it may hurt them but man honesty and truth that shit is powerful and she will thank you. and i only hope she will stand by you and you prove to her that you love her. look at it from the other persons perspective being on the outside of the relationship looking in at this relationship with your cw.be more concerned about the damage to your relationship w your so and not the feelings of your coworker , understand you are not an innocent party here. i mean no disrespect when i type any of this as well . better to acknowledge it now and take the appropriate measures to save your relationship and your partners sanity

nip that right in the ass now. from experience and observance i think you are very justified in how and what you are feeling. boundaries if any have been and are being crossed if not full blown already. i dont trust the explanation of that work relationship ...the truth there ..man... its unacceptable