chaunceypie
chaunceypie t1_j2doquq wrote
Reply to (21F) (22M) His gaming addiction is ruining our relationship and i don't know how much longer i can take it by NafkaGjores
He sounds like a good guy. He just struggles with addiction, something that depression makes even easier to fall into. I know you said he is going to therapy, and that's great, but I wonder if he would be receptive to you going along? Or perhaps you could set up a different therapist for the both of you?
He may not be approaching the subject of his gaming addiction and how it's effecting his relationship. And I think a therapist would know best how to work with you individually and as a couple on how to handle it. It takes a lot of recognize the problem, but it takes even more to change the behavior and he may not know how.
Wishing the both of you the best, OP!
chaunceypie t1_j2f0kq5 wrote
Reply to comment by Tight-Cut-4606 in [40m] [35f] we are 2 people in a monogamous marraige. his fettish is killing the marraige. by Tight-Cut-4606
I'm concerned that at some point he will just bring this "friend" over! What the heck? I would suggest counseling to see if your relationship can be saved. Otherwise, you have a decision to make. Can you live with this man or not.