ZharethZhen
ZharethZhen t1_jdq0orr wrote
Is she after consensual non-consent? You don't have to do anything she isn't comfortable with.
ZharethZhen t1_jb4b1kg wrote
Reply to comment by GetlostMaps in Insulate Britain protesters jailed for seven weeks for mentioning climate change in defence by Mighty_L_LORT
Yeah, like all of them. Seriously, just google how rapists are often treated by the judges, like the Rapist Brock Turner.
ZharethZhen t1_jayhssi wrote
Reply to comment by magicseadog in Insulate Britain protesters jailed for seven weeks for mentioning climate change in defence by Mighty_L_LORT
I mean, that's just wrong. Judges can and do let people off when they are sympathetic to them.
ZharethZhen t1_jaeab4c wrote
Reply to comment by Turbulent_Cicada_516 in Me (f24) and my boyfriend (m24) don’t do anything stimulating together. by Turbulent_Cicada_516
Why did you not follow up on it?
ZharethZhen t1_jaea6d0 wrote
Reply to comment by Turbulent_Cicada_516 in Me (f24) and my boyfriend (m24) don’t do anything stimulating together. by Turbulent_Cicada_516
That isn't planning something, that is asking to be included.
ZharethZhen t1_jaea3p6 wrote
Reply to comment by Turbulent_Cicada_516 in Me (f24) and my boyfriend (m24) don’t do anything stimulating together. by Turbulent_Cicada_516
Don't offer to join him. Say, I have a table booked on Thursday, see you there. I have tickets for a movie at 8. I booked us seats at the outdoor theatre. Etc.
But yes, he is comfortable and doesn't feel the need to try.
Just be upfront with him. Tell him you are bored of the routine and don't want to continue like this.
ZharethZhen t1_j7yp846 wrote
Reply to comment by sweetsweetnothingg in TIFU by overdosing on caffeine by sweetsweetnothingg
When I was younger, I went off caffeine completely for awhile for some reason (I forget at the moment). One morning I woke up with an extreme headache and my sleepy mom suggested I take a couple of excedrine. Which I did without thinking. Went to high school. Started having heart palpitations, an anxiety attack, and fits of paranoia. It was fucked up and crazy!
ZharethZhen t1_j7u8bbe wrote
Reply to comment by Purple_Dot9207 in TIFU by overdosing on caffeine by sweetsweetnothingg
Entirely depends on how sensitive they are to caffeine and what their normal intake is like.
ZharethZhen t1_j6oa28w wrote
Reply to comment by Adventurous-Tip8351 in My (f24) husband (m25) sent nudes to someone else. by [deleted]
And you believed all of this?
ZharethZhen t1_j6nl6b6 wrote
This was not a trap he fell into. He was trying to sext with someone, they blackmailed him, and he refused to pay. Hon, have some self respect. Dump this cheater. Especially because you uave kids...otherwise you are teaching them that it is okay to treat your partner this way.
ZharethZhen t1_iyf0q9y wrote
Tell him to fuck off. He clearly has feelings for you. And his behaviour is totally inappropriate.
ZharethZhen t1_iycbwzq wrote
Reply to I think my girlfriend might be mad at me and I am really upset and I dont know what to do by Narrow_Performer_211
Have you tried calling her? What happened right before she stopped talking to you?
ZharethZhen t1_jduirp8 wrote
Reply to comment by ThatOneGuys-porn in TIFU by saying I really struggle to initiate sexy times with my GF by [deleted]
But she wants you to force your kisses on her when she's pulling away? I don't think she hates non-consent as much as she claims.
Seriously, just tell her what you are and aren't willing to do. Just because she wants you to do something sexual or whatever, doesn't mean you have to do it. Especially if you don't like it or it makes you uncomfortable. If that's not okay for her, then maybe you two aren't compatible.