yes the difference between what i make and her parents make is really differnt and i make enough to where i wouldnt say it dosent make a dent but after a few months it would even out

based on what ive read most people in my age range cant afford a house in the current market thats why i said im lucky. and yes this has been a issue ive brought up with her before and she says she working on it i just dont see much progress but im trying my best to be supportive.

she is very attached to her parents. last year we couldnt go on vacation unless i shelled out for 2 more tickets for them to fly with us as well. ive asked her to try and ween off them which she says she has i just havent really seen it. i managed to get lucky and become independent from a young age.

i did tell them that what me and her do is none of their business

thats why im worried i know the messenger gets shot all the time! plus yeah i agree about the rift

i agree and ill be talking to her after work. her parents are really involved with her they literally have a room in our house for when one if not both come over

if you read it i respect my girlfriends wishes and if were ready then we are if not then oh well. but maybe next time read the whole thing?