She wants you as a man to take the lead and ask her out. Maybe after a few dates, she will also take more initiative, and if it's a deal breaker for you, just make sure to mention it during your second or third date.

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There's an 11 year age gap, find someone much closer to your age and that will remove a lot of the insecurity

"No, but I have some personal issues and need some space for the time being, I hope you can understand"

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All girls say this nonsense at least those under the age of 30. Once they start losing their looks they tend to start realising looks aren't the be all end all

100% she's using you as an emotional sponge while giving you nothing physical in return.

Probably the type who gets with a partner for supposedly good looks but doesn't share the same chemistry when it comes to emotional connection. It's up to you if you're happy to listen to her blabla while she sleeps around with someone else or if you need the full package

You tell him now before he wastes even more time of his life pretending to be a father to a kid that isn't his. You own up to also cheating around the period the 2nd kid was conceived and most likely you'll be justifiably forced to do DNA tests on all kids due to your unfaithfulness.

If you're worried about him correctly getting angry then you inform him with somebody else by your side and prepare for all possible outcomes. You can't blame him especially if he has no idea that you were cheating multiple times already

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Regardless of whether or not he's cheating or not, you have no trust in this relationship so its almost guaranteed that the next person you meet will be an improvement

TLDR, 10+ year age gap = highly unlikely to ever lead to anything serious.

Turn the page and find someone of your generation

Divorce get out of there and find somebody who respects you

If you have any self-respect then you will divorce him ASAP

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