Coming from a "broken home " if you will.... I will tell you that seeing your parents in a bad marriage is much worse for the kids than seeing both parents move on to healthy relationships separately. When my mom finally divorced my father when I was 11, I asked her why she waited so long. I could see that neither of them were happy at all, and it caused stress in the house. If she won't help work on the marriage, then you would probably be better to separate sooner rather than later. Your child will be happier for it, and you can model the kind of relationship you hope for him to have.

As a chix that grew up as one of the guys well most of my friends are guys, I don't really get the female perspective on most things. So if a hang out 1 on 1 with a friend it's 98% of the time gonna be a guy. Not everyone is out to have sex with everyone.

He said it was cool because he wanted to think it was a phase! He's now made it clear he won't support you or you children if you don't fit in his moral box. Get out now before any further damage can be done

No he knows....!

If it'll let me.