Submitted by kkoolook t3_101ej0g in todayilearned
intellifone t1_j2pqfen wrote
Reply to comment by Ok_Magician7814 in TIL that bots š¤ drive ~40% of all internet traffic. by kkoolook
Iām trying not to be condescending here but the math here is very simple.
If 80% of womenās profiles are missing descriptions and youāre supposed to say no to 49/50 profiles, then you still have 9 remaining profiles with details to say No to before you still get to the one single Yes.
That means of the 20% of āgoodā profiles, the ones that arenāt bots or arenāt trying to sling an OnlyFans, the ones with genuine photos and good descriptions in their profiles, youāre still supposed to say No to 1 in 10.
Say No to 95% of all profiles. The same way you would in real life if you went to a random bar. Youāre not approaching 50% of the women in that bar even if 100% are guaranteed single. Not even 25%. You might say something to 1 or 2.
DeengisKhan t1_j2rnfid wrote
Iām a super middle of the road white male. Iām have some of the favored traits in that Iām 6ft tall on the dot, and classically masculine looking, but Iām also pretty fat, and a total nerd. Like 100ās of days on RuneScape plays dnd once a week kind of nerd. I have no problem with dating sites. My only āgimmickā is I know how to cook and make that somewhat focal on my profiles. Thatās the whole formula though. I put dumpy ass photos of myself being myself as my profile pics so as to make sure that if we do get to in person meeting that I always look better than my photos, and then only swipe on people I see myself attempting to actually go on a date with. I spent about 2 weeks on hinge a year ago, and have been with the person I met ever since and we live together now. I have met all but one girlfriend in this way over the course of about 8 years of relationships ending and beginning. Itās totally doable my friends I promise.
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