There is one thing that should reassure you tremendously, though. Her partner clearly knows nothing about you. Which means she doesn't talk about her patients. Which might really mean that her uncomfortableness might be because there was no way for her to give her partner context without violating your trust. Emphasized because I've just read some of the other responses.

If you feel up to it, next time you go to her, apologize for putting her in that position and thank her for being so professional.