Gernia t1_iujynvw wrote on October 31, 2022 at 10:13 PM

Reply to comment by ghostttoast in TIFU by getting a nose piercing and now my family hates my boyfriend. by [deleted]

Stunted social ability can often come from many things, she might be a fully functioning adult in other settings than with her parents.

For me, this seems like a socially abusive relationship, however it is impossible to draw such conclusions from just this short piece of text.

ghostttoast t1_iujzsnp wrote on October 31, 2022 at 10:22 PM

I just don’t understand how people can actively dishonor themselves by shrinking their boundaries and needs. I have my own salad bar of mental health issues and crippling anxiety, but I be damned if I made it even worse on myself by pretending I didn’t have an opinion or the ability to express myself. Like OP is 26, has a relationship, but isn’t able to stand up for themselves? Kinda seems like some things are out of order here