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wheels1989 t1_ja9bpsl wrote

You will laugh about this in 5 years. Not a big deal kid.

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StickDock2107 OP t1_ja9bwoo wrote

Yeah well I don't really care, it's a big deal for me now, just because it won't affect me in the future it doesn't mean it's not affecting me now.

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wheels1989 t1_ja9es9k wrote

I am just saying don't beat yourself up people make mistakes. You will chuckle about this to yourself in 5 years.

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StickDock2107 OP t1_ja9iyxc wrote

I know it's a mistake but I can't help but blame myself, how can I stop beating myself up? I really try.

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Drewstosay t1_ja9zj5r wrote

nah, I'm not 19 anymore but fuck this, kid has some shitty ways of talking about sex work and should probably reflect on that but other than that this is a big deal in their life and you telling them it's not is real shitty.

Next time you have any issue at all I hope someone who's had it worse or been through it tells you that your feelings aren't a big deal. Lost your house? not a big deal move on, oh you have a medical emergency? Frank was pronounced dead and has to learn how to walk again yours isn't a big deal.

"big" is relative and for a 19 year old who's recently gone through their entire life structure they had changing (because leaving school is hard and a big deal even if you or I went through it a long time and ago and are fine) more changes and questioning what they know, want, and have, are a big deal.

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wheels1989 t1_jaae0hl wrote

Lmao are you serious ? Nailing a hooker and losing your house/ becoming very sick are not on the same planet you goof. I would call his night out a success tbh.

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wheels1989 t1_jaaetev wrote

Just letting you know on a scale of 1 to 10 stupid you sir hit a 10 with that statement

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