Blue_Osiris1 t1_ja6rdd5 wrote on February 27, 2023 at 6:43 AM

You two loving each other IS the only important thing. If you're looking for reassurance that he truly loves you, observe his actions over a long period of time. I can guarantee you there are plenty of married couples who treat each other like acquaintances most days out of the year.

ShhhHesWatchingUs t1_ja6szu4 wrote on February 27, 2023 at 7:03 AM

As a married man of 13 years so far, there have been months where i feel like im in a share house with my wife and kids, not a family home.

But on the reverse, there are many more months / years where there is obvious love in the house and those occasional months are usually during hectic periods of life (busy periods at work, Christmas, school holidays etc.) So the lack of "love" isnt because its not there, just that we arent taking the same amount of time to show it openly.