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OkCardiologist2403 t1_jeh5kjz wrote
Reply to My (27M) Gf (26F) of 2 years did not invite me along to her bday movie stream night by BarnacleTop5037
John wick is a mighty fine movie, go out, hook up with ur friends later on , go with them to a bar, club, strip joint whatever stay out really late or to the early next morning, and if she questions u about ur night tell her since u weren’t invite to her suare u went out partying
[deleted] OP t1_jeh5ka8 wrote
Reply to my boyfriend (m27) of 5 years won't tell me (f26) why he's not ready to marry me by [deleted]
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NomadicusRex t1_jeh5jlt wrote
Reply to comment by thisisrandom801 in husband's coworker ( F30) asking my husband why he's so protective of me (f 29) by [deleted]
>NTA!
Wrong sub. ;-)
And yeah, some folks don't get how a marriage is supposed to work, how it's a partnership between two people who are supposed to love each other. A good marriage partnership is a "whole is greater than the sum of its parts" type of deal. I've had that before, but unfortunately some folks weren't raised with good relationship examples and it's a hard concept for them to wrap their minds around. I think they view a marriage as almost a roommate situation where you get to have sex. ::shrugs::
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Reply to My (21M) boyfriend (20M) cheated on me, but we want to make things work by Upbeat_Night_5615
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Ad-for-you-17 t1_jeh5g68 wrote
Reply to comment by SonsofStarlord in husband's coworker ( F30) asking my husband why he's so protective of me (f 29) by [deleted]
> You should have tried out some online or emotional only affairs first. It’s like starting in the minor leagues. That way you can see if you’ll ever make it to the majors. You learn to hide your emotions and be able to tell if the SO is suspicious. If you make it through without incident then by the time you are ready to go physical it’ll be like riding a bike.
Jesus fucking Christ that sun
essres t1_jeh5f87 wrote
Compared to the majority of posts I read, you seem extremely self aware and have done the mature thing, even though it hurts
All I can say is will get better and you will soon realise you did the right thing as you deserve more
peakpenguins t1_jeh5eyi wrote
Reply to comment by yesiamnormie in Girlfriend (F18) does not want to respect boundary (M20) by [deleted]
You can talk about it until you're red in the face but you can't make her stop. That's not one of the options.
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yesiamnormie t1_jeh5ci0 wrote
Reply to comment by peakpenguins in Girlfriend (F18) does not want to respect boundary (M20) by [deleted]
I'd rather not break up because of this, it can't be the only solution
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peakpenguins t1_jeh572t wrote
>How can I make her stop?
You can't. You can't control what other people do, only how you respond to it. She's made it clear that she doesn't agree with you and will probably continue doing this, so it's up to you what you want to do about that.
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NomadicusRex t1_jeh5692 wrote
Reply to husband's coworker ( F30) asking my husband why he's so protective of me (f 29) by [deleted]
The correct answer is "He's not overprotective, this is just what a partner is supposed to do for the people they love, I do the same for him."
Frankly, I feel only pity for your coworker that she married someone who doesn't show that he cares about her.
silver25u t1_jeh564m wrote
Reply to comment by UnsightlyFuzz in My (40f) husband (45m) has found out my kids aren’t his by throwra44s
I assume she’ll get some amount of financial settlement in the divorce if not alimony. I don’t disagree with you concerning child support, but conflicted about it.
KeepItMovingFolks t1_jeh5439 wrote
Reply to My guy friend (20 M) doesn’t like the gift my boyfriend (18 M) wants to get me (19 M) for our one year anniversary, what do I do? by [deleted]
It’s none of your friend’s business really…and ultimately it’s the thought that counts. Tell your friend to worry about their own relationship
19century_space_girl t1_jeh52f0 wrote
Reply to comment by HHIOTF in husband's coworker ( F30) asking my husband why he's so protective of me (f 29) by [deleted]
OP, since you observed this at an event, can you contact HR about her harassing him? If not ask him about going to HR because women like that don't stop.
[deleted] OP t1_jeh52ap wrote
Reply to comment by The_Loli_Neko in I (F22) don’t know whether to leave or stay in my relationship with my bf (M21) by [deleted]
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reluctantdonkey t1_jeh4un8 wrote
Reply to comment by yowen2000 in [26M] [24F] she was only dating me for sex and I feel kinda disgusted by throwRA283108
Yes, it's important to keep in mind that, even if this woman had said "I am 100% looking for a serious relationship!" she STILL could have broken up with him two months later (yes, even after "riding his dick" and all that noise) and there would STILL be nothing wrong with it.
Because that's the dating game. It just is.
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Reply to My 23M boyfriend will not agree with me 28F 6years by Independent-Peace704
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