I second this. Get it together. Please.

You can ask us to not mention the age gap, but if you want another's perspective, we're entitled to share what it is we see that is situationally concerning.

This age gap is frightening and I cannot fathom the depths of who he truly is to be using such young women in this way.

You are being used under the guise of love and relationships. Real relationships are based on mutual respect, not infatuation. They don't work in this context. 25 year age-gaps are creepy and wrong, OP.

Get it together.