It almost sounds like you're looking for justification to break up with your boyfriend for this guy.

I know this is a really hard pill to swallow for a lot of people, because it can be traumatizing: Break. Up. From. Your. Shitty. Relationships.

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That's it. My dad told me as much when he hated my girlfriends. Did I listen? Hell no. But I wish I had now. Will the same thing happen with my son and whoever he decides to date? Probably.

Just leave.