I don’t get that she wants him, is miserable in her own marriage, is searching for cracks to exploit, needs to be reported to HR. Y’all are nuts.😂

She sounds like she was asking why it seems like your husband can’t have a conversation without feeling he needs to defend you. I don’t understand why you think this woman - who works with your husband - should be focusing on/paying attention to/sitting next to you at work events. Lolol. The women my husband works with are polite to me, but none are looking to be my bestie.

Well, unless they’ve had to much to drink. I once had a 20-something admin come running to hug me and gush over me. Ew. My husband is her boss. I would have preferred she ignored me!