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AcanthaceaeGrouchy95 t1_je9we2v wrote

Why do people think that rating others on their faces or behind is fine and fun, she actually deserves to be with someone who actually considers her a 10 and if I could advice her rn I would have told her to leave you because I don't think she will ever be able to feel good about her own self and her body if she continues staying with you, she will always need others' validation now because her boyfriend straight away rated her a 6, no matter what you tell her now this thing is always going to stay at the back of her mind and Idk how a 36M is not even mature enough to know how such remarks can destroy someone's entire self esteem

Also I read your previous post , how were you 31 last month and 36 now???

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ThrowRA_womanpokedex OP t1_je9xha5 wrote

I didn’t realize it could be seen, I changed the ages and the rating a little bit so people wouldn’t know as I’ve asked my friends for advice as well.

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troni91 t1_jeaaqhb wrote

I'm gonna give you some benefit of the doubt and offer advice. When you are about to say something - anything really. Think to yourself "what do I want to achieve from this" ... If you'd done this when you rated your GF, you may have realised there was nothing positive that could come out of that.

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ThrowRA_womanpokedex OP t1_jeabw4f wrote

When I said it to her, I didn’t know I wanted to be in a relationship with her.

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troni91 t1_jeac3ch wrote

Ok and what did you expect as a response/result of saying that?

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