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YoProfWhite t1_jac1zm0 wrote

That all sounds really awful. Here's what you do:

  1. break it off. The worst your family can do is go "aw that's a shame :/"
  2. enjoy being free from someone who antagonizes you.
  3. spend the next three years working out and getting absolutely shredded.
  4. find this dude again and then rip him in half like a phonebook.

I think you'll be much happier without all this mess.

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ThatFatHippie t1_jac5eev wrote

Pretty sure your family won't care as they only want you to be happy. You say he was shit and they will instantly forget him.

Leave the slime bag. Better off without him

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Astleynator t1_jaccvsf wrote

Yeah, I mean, rom coms and pop. You may date a glass of water instead - it's also pretty tasteless, but at least it won't disrespect you.

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bleep-bloop-meep t1_jacg6aw wrote

Man I was pretty shitty when I was an inexperienced 18 yr old too. Good thing I matured as I got older. Kinda.

Too much unnecessary drama though. Wouldn't you be happier without all this?

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SherrKhan32 t1_jacpazb wrote

I got the ick from him just by reading this. Dump him and live your life!

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ProfessorPie1888 t1_jacrnaz wrote

He sounds like the worst. He is controlling, rude, and extremely insecure. Insufferable

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SerenityM3oW t1_jaeayro wrote

Break up. Your family might like him but you are their daughter. You and your happiness will always come first. Im sure if they knew how he treated you they wouldn't like him so much either. Free yourself and be happy

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Pale_Height_1251 t1_jaelm1e wrote

I think you should marry him because your family likes him. Don't worry about the fact you hate him, so long as your family likes him, who cares, right?

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