Submitted by soparklion t3_10k7c0s in pittsburgh
MauraMcBadass t1_j5shfwv wrote
Reply to comment by Early_Platypus_8855 in School students in Sq Hill by soparklion
Yeah, this comment makes it clear that you are fairly ignorant about Allderdice and about how wealth inequality works in general. You don’t become wealthy via osmosis. Exposure to people who have more than you for no discernible reason besides race or random happenstance doesn’t make you suddenly want to go out of your way to be perfect in every way imaginable. More likely, it makes you mad. And mad teenagers do stupid shit, especially when peer pressure is involved.
Beyond that, Allderdice is shockingly segregated and has been for decades. The PPS Gifted Program has historically been overwhelmingly full of white kids from “good neighborhoods.” Black students currently make up less than 35% of the students in the program, district-wide. That’s not because they aren’t hard workers or don’t have the capacity to excel at higher levels, but because they simply weren’t offered the same advantages as their white peers. So tons of brilliant kids are stuck in practically remedial mainstream classes by no fault of their own, bored out of their minds, with no resources to help them engage more and actually learn and excel.
And I feel like I need to mention again, wealth isn’t a communicable disease. Exposure to it doesn’t mean you’re more likely to become wealthy yourself, especially if that exposure is fleeting and superficial.
meet-kd t1_j5t9svw wrote
Agree with most of this, except being exposed makes you mad. As someone who grew up beyond poor, it was more of a motivation.
We all know what the issue is. It’s guidance, acceptance and love. And we all know that we personally can help make a positive impact, yet it’s easier to do this online.
Complaining about it will never do a single thing to change it. That’s not directed at you specifically; it’s more of a group comment.
I’m newer to the area so I don’t actually know where some of these areas are, but if anyone has any suggestions on where positive adults could be useful feel free to share.
aboutsider t1_j5tgf0y wrote
It made you motivated. It easily could've made someone else mad.
meet-kd t1_j5tk562 wrote
Oh I agree. Happened to my brother. Was just saying that it’s not always the worst case scenario.
Really I think it comes down to accountability. And I’m sure you noticed, overwhelming majority of people have an issue with that.
aboutsider t1_j5ybn5c wrote
Overwhelming majority of people have an issue with accountability? Nah, I wouldn't agree with such a vague statement.
MauraMcBadass t1_j5tswta wrote
Well, yeah. People are individuals and respond to their environments in different ways. My point was less that everyone would automatically be mad and destructive and more that it’s silly to assume that everyone would be motivated by the mere proximity of apparent wealth, especially since the way the school is set up keeps students of varying backgrounds separate.
The issue is at least partially guidance, acceptance, and love. Definitely. But there’s also a lot of nuance to it and the attitude of “they have gazed upon the upper middle class and have still chosen to be disadvantaged and uncivilized” is damaging and incredibly unfair to those kids.
meet-kd t1_j5tu58p wrote
You’re not wrong at all. That accountability thing could go a long way for some here who don’t even realize how they make it worse more than better.
If you ever figure out how to get that understood by the people let me know lol.
And stay warm today. Gross out
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