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cdelaney1982 t1_j1om5ec wrote

2nd one by myself after my family disowned me. Had a couple emo moments but hoping it'll get better as the years go on.

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alymonster t1_j1opdvh wrote

It will, I promise. Iā€™m 22 years out from being disowned. Spend time with your chosen family (friends), make new traditions, and do something nice for yourself.

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Steven_Snippert t1_j1qkmxw wrote

Sorry, spending the holidays alone is never fun. Hopefully you have a circle of friends. Friends are the family you choose.

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cdelaney1982 t1_j1qlm2t wrote

Not really. I'm kind of a hermit cuz I work two jobs. Like I have a handful of friends but they all each got their own thing going on. Honestly, it is what it is. I'm sure it'll get better eventually.

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Steven_Snippert t1_j1t4f6f wrote

I work from home. Also a hermit, not many friends. Keep positive thoughts. I shed those who are excessively negative. I'm on meds, they help.

Find joy in everyday things. Love yourself. That last one was tough to learn.

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cdelaney1982 t1_j1t4okk wrote

Pretty sure that's a tough one for a lot of us but I appreciates u!

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