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Banea-Vaedr t1_j1zd4gb wrote

Reply to comment by MtPollux in Missing person - day 18 by Jmang322

These are frequently posted by stalkers or PIs and other people who have lost track of their prey.

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Unique-Public-8594 t1_j1zdjbs wrote

Right. Does happen. More often when missing person is female and no police department phone number or police report linked.

Not if there is a legit police report.

OP: please link police report and don’t include private number for reporting. Would be better if you Remove Jule’s phone number so it’s clear this is not a stalker.

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Jmang322 OP t1_j1zdxx5 wrote

Just a friends brother; helping by sharing & directing all info to police

Think what you’d like - just keep a look out

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Unique-Public-8594 t1_j1zf3cx wrote

People will be less suspicious of your posts and more likely to help if the only phone number given for reporting is the police number though.

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Jmang322 OP t1_j201cs8 wrote

I’m just reposting what the family has up - it’s a friend’s brother and they’re going through a tough time as it is and the negative comments don’t help (not saying yours was negative; but opening this to the Internet - we all know what can come with it)

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Banea-Vaedr t1_j1zdon0 wrote

>Right. Does happen. More often when missing person is female

Unless, of course, you're actually looking for the woman in the picture and building trust by claiming to be searching for the man

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Unique-Public-8594 t1_j1zevrn wrote

Good point.

Except in this case the Peabody Police Dept has posted this on their facebook page and multiple news media are covering the story.

Source - facebook:

https://www.facebook.com/100064572798436/posts/517851593710596/?flite=scwspnss

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Banea-Vaedr t1_j1zf2ce wrote

The use of the word "operating" suggests he's not missing, just leaving his life behind.

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Unique-Public-8594 t1_j1zhgwv wrote

Here’s some more info including very supportive comment from Michael’s wedding photographer.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Maine/comments/zk7wmk/maine_man_michael_gray_missing/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

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Banea-Vaedr t1_j1zhk4y wrote

From that, it really seems like he stole his sister's car

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cowghost t1_j1zj4y4 wrote

Who cares. Dude could be having a manic episode or a full phycotic break. And his family is trying to keep him from dieing or becoming homeless. Honestly. Go fuck your self, your a horrendous human and you are sick.

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Unique-Public-8594 t1_j20jyqv wrote

“Operating” might simply be “sheriff’s lingo” for “driving” and you are reading WaY to much into this - unkind to the family.

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Banea-Vaedr t1_j20k1z4 wrote

Operating is sheriff lingo for driving. And if he's still driving, he's not exactly missing

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cowghost t1_j1ziw9f wrote

Your nutz. You need to get on anxiety medication asap if you really think the way you are. Its not normal and your definitely not helping or saving anyone. This person has been. Issing for a long time and its the man, ive seen posters and it on the news when he 1st went missing and the police number is posted.

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Banea-Vaedr t1_j1ziynz wrote

I looked further into it and it seems he stole his sister's car

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Unique-Public-8594 t1_j1zdurj wrote

This one looks legit:

https://www.nbcboston.com/news/local/peabody-police-looking-for-man-who-went-missing-after-getting-locked-out-of-his-vehicle/2917714/

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Banea-Vaedr t1_j1zdzi8 wrote

Not quite. "He is now believed to be operating..." suggests something else is up.

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zumera t1_j1zeft8 wrote

It suggests that he’s driving a different car, as the rest of that sentence tells you.

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Banea-Vaedr t1_j1zeho3 wrote

That kinda suggests that he isn't missing.

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Unique-Public-8594 t1_j1zi33z wrote

Unless someone used police terminology not intending to imply anything.

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Banea-Vaedr t1_j1zi5qb wrote

Upon doing more research, it looks like he stole his sister's car and is on the run

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cowghost t1_j1zjpm0 wrote

Again who cares? I bet his sister is worried af about her brother who might have mental health problems and be in the midst of a break down

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Banea-Vaedr t1_j1zjsok wrote

Nothing I've seen so far suggests that. I'm not a fan of the use of "missing" here.

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cowghost t1_j1zlxin wrote

Your a moron. Even if he doesnt want to be found, he is missing. Thats what the word missing means, it means somthing is not able to be easily found. And he is missing, wether or not he comitted a crime is absolutely no bissness of yours.

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Banea-Vaedr t1_j1zm1n3 wrote

No need to snitch, then, either, is there? My business is "hey, don't believe everything you see online!"

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cowghost t1_j1zmgyz wrote

No your a moron. I hope this upon you. As some one who has had a freind do exactly this during a phycotic break, inwish the same to you. Fuck you.

Actualy i rember arguing with you before about some other very stupid argument you made, and you deleted the posts. I forgot your the dumbist person in MA, and also now blocked. A pox upon you.

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HoBWrestling t1_j1zuoo8 wrote

I wouldn't be calling someone a moron and using the incorrect you're in the comments. Just saying.

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