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I_am_noob_dont_yell t1_jc16ek0 wrote

Reply to comment by elhospitaler in [OC] Results after a little over a month on Hinge (M/27) by elhospitaler

You have all these dates overlapping?

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elhospitaler OP t1_jc1n12g wrote

Yeah, some weekends were pretty packed, also some dates were just simple coffee dates in the middle of the weekday

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JellyWaffles t1_jc1v7pb wrote

Ok yeah, 11 dates in a single month for a guy honestly feels like a lot.

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elhospitaler OP t1_jc1vqmg wrote

Yeah I'm quite extroverted but it's starting to be draining.

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Yummy_Crayons91 t1_jc3pl0r wrote

The same thing happened to me with Hinge. I got divorced, downloaded Hinge and with the help of friends wives I made a profile that seemed to have a good amount of success. As I got my dating confidence back I started to get exhausted from all of the chats and first dates that I got Hinge burnout.

Too much attention on that app is exhausting for Men, you're basically expected to lead every conversation, more or less plan every date, meet up etc. It was all my free time for a while.

I had absolutely zero luck with Tinder by the way, what a trash, spam filled app.

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elhospitaler OP t1_jc5f6pq wrote

Sorry to hear that mate. Hope things are better for you now.

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