I've moved been both, and I've been very happy with the ps5, staying off Xbox this round. Game pass is great and all but I have kids, so I want quality gaming time, not volume. Your summary is fair, so many people get weirdly tribal about it.

While I prefer ps5 (controller, graphics, quality of exclusives, and I love the psvr2), I have to say that it only allows quick resume on the most recently played game - Xbox quick resume on multiple games is a great feature.