If you can't stand the heat, stay outta the kitchen. Making a presumption that you would be telling me the truth painfully it would turn into an argument cause it would also be your opinion cause if you live a lie long enough it becomes the truth. So, what you should really be doing is trying to change your perspective and realize that no one wants to be ridiculed. I just want you to gently tell me the painful truth, that is what doctors do.