[20M] [20F] need some help i may have gotten ghosted not too sure

Submitted by Ok_Presentation6197 t3_zzdvem in relationship_advice

Okay so i (M20) was talking to this girl (F20) for a couple days and it was going pretty well i was going to ask her to hang out soon but she beat me to it and asked me out for this weekend and of course i said yes but now it’s the day before we planned to hang out and she has gone completely MIA out of nowhere. If anyone has any advice for me please let me know, i don’t want to seem super desperate by double texting but it’s been since yesterday at around 5 since she texted me back and i have nothing to go off here so i am asking for some help.

EDIT: I was just trippin over nothing thank god. We hung out and it went really good and we r hanging out again tomorrow. Thank you to everyone that replied and gave me some game

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Complete_Solution471 t1_j2b0tsp wrote

Yesterday at 5pm?

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Complete_Solution471 t1_j2b0vd6 wrote

And you had plans for tomorrow (Saturday) and what time?

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Ok_Presentation6197 OP t1_j2b1r15 wrote

yeah sorry 5PM. I was gonna pick her up saturday at 7

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Complete_Solution471 t1_j2bdvr5 wrote

I’d hit her up tomorrow somewhere between 10a and noon.

It’s odd that she’s leave it up in the air like that but it’s worth a shot if you think there’s something there. I wouldnt reach out after that tho. It’s be confirmation that she wasn’t interested.

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BigSky1062 t1_j2b1xaj wrote

Based in the info above, you wouldn’t be out of line or seem desperate if you just shoot her another text saying, “Hey…just checking in to confirm for Saturday. Give me a call or shoot me a text. Thanks.” After that, all you can do is wait. If you don’t hear from her soon…make other plans and chalk it up to being saved from a potentially bad relationship.

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Ok_Presentation6197 OP t1_j2b4c30 wrote

thank you. I think I will wait a little longer and if there’s still nothing by like 4:30 or 5 today then i will do this. 🫡 prayers up

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Empty-Education4240 t1_j2b23dq wrote

It's the holidays, she might be busy.

If she doesn't reach out by tomorrow by a reasonable time before the date, Then you got your answer. Until then, be patient and have a little faith.

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