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Witch_on_a_moped t1_jadtja9 wrote

I personally would find it cheesy, but the question is, Do you want him to know you're a narcissist?

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[deleted] OP t1_jaduno9 wrote

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Witch_on_a_moped t1_jaduw1d wrote

Are you in therapy for your narcissism?

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[deleted] OP t1_jadvc1g wrote

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Witch_on_a_moped t1_jadvmxr wrote

I think anyone you pursue a relationship with deserves to know your diagnosis. I know most narcissists have a comfortable knack for lying, but that doesn't make it okay.

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[deleted] OP t1_jadw7ou wrote

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Witch_on_a_moped t1_jadwubc wrote

Not entirely. I have a close friend that's a narcissist, everyone knows it, and it allows all of us to understand her and how we interact with eachother. Sometimes she tries really hard not to react and behave in certain ways, and sometimes she's a cold, annoying bitch, but hey...I still love her.

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[deleted] OP t1_jadxfzr wrote

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Witch_on_a_moped t1_jadxtbv wrote

Yeah she likes to be seen as the person who goes out of her way to always help people, but we call her ass out and tell her we know it's so she can post it to social media. She gets mad, but we're not blind to her bullshit. People will always figure out that part of you. Narcissists aren't psychopaths, they're not hard to spot.

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Biauralbeats t1_jae0rjp wrote

Hm. That is bit of a cop out. It may be your personality. But you can do things to compensate for it. It just requires hard work. CBT. Otherwise, you will find yourself far more alone than you wish to be as people grow tired and burnt out from dealing with the personality.

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Biauralbeats t1_jae0ekp wrote

I think you are giving a lot of people credit for thinking about this a lot more than they really are going to. That may be the narcissism in you eeking out- where you think everyone is in tune with (or you wish they were in tune with) your line of thinking when they really have no fucking clue what a wolf means.

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